WATCH: Iyanla Vanzant tries to fix the life of Hazel E on ‘Fix My Life’ (full)

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood firecracker Hazel E reaches out to Iyanla Vanzant in hopes of getting to the bottom of her own vicious cycle of negative behavior and issues with colorism in order to find better ways to express herself so that she can get her life back in order. Watch as Iyanla forces Hazel to confront the childhood trauma that helped create her current circumstances.

  • QBee

    Where the fucq did your stupid ass crawl out of…you should have been left on a Kleenex

  • OMFG, STFU and go sit in a corner and be mad about it. Jump in a plastic bag and practice suffocating while you’re at it.

  • So, you copied and pasted this TWICE and didn’t have the nerve to fix all the obvious grammatical errors? You’re doing yourself a disservice and it takes away from your “message”.

  • Alexis Trimble

    She was much prettier before the plastic surgery ,these celebrities really be fucking their selves up

  • Jacksonwright Nedra Kookie

    I beg to differ I was 15 had – 16 so I speak on
    knowledge no pun intended!

  • Jacksonwright Nedra Kookie

    Didn’t say there was hell I wasn’t I was only ,16

  • A real one 333

    hahahahaha

  • A real one 333

    OMG JUST REALIZED HAZEL E is 37!!! she’s a substanceless loser.

  • A real one 333

    ..

  • Gbunny

    I did 10 once plus 8 shots of Hen, which I hate. I don’t like dark liquors at all. Lets just say sleeping in your car is not comfortable.

  • mocha brown

    Aww thank you. Its amazing how our childhood shapes us as adults.

  • Leigh

    That was big of you to admit. I honestly would feel the same after that experience because I’ve dealt with some of the same in school as well, but I’m glad u saw a different perspective on it and grew from it girl! 💯👏🏽

  • QBee

    Girl…sit down somewhere…I’m making a comment…and I’m entitled to that…YOU need to heal yourself with that horse hair on your head…what’s wrong with your ‘real’ hair or don’t you have any…you’re making your rounds telling people about spewing hate…you’re spewing hate on yourself with that yak hair on your head…FOH you need Jesus…looking scared as fucq in your profile pic…ad swear you look cute…COME AGAIN

  • Dom Saunders

    Why don’t you just shut your ass up and stop bothering people about their opinions.

  • Angel

    How do you know? Your comment is full of hate so what makes you better than her? Ijs

  • Angel

    I thought the same thing. She looks a lot like her mom. Same voice too, as they talk a like. She may look MORE like her father but definitely looks like her Mom

  • Angel

    I agree 100%

  • Angel

    Well most 17 yo moms arent the best moms anyway so……….

  • Angel

    The whole episode was about hate and spewing hate to others. Along with self identity. Your comment is full of hate. You have some healing to do yourself. You started off calling her a fool and dogging her name. A lot of entertainers have stage names. You would never say that about Snoop Dogg. As far as your opinion being Arica is a lot better than Hazel….says who? Ppl have a right to call themselves what they want as well as a right to change their name. What if your grandmother’s name was Hazel? Im sure you wouldn’t have said what you said. And its not cool for you to body shame. She doesnt look pregnant to me. All bcuz she isnt a size 0. I’m not even a Hazel E fan but I know hate when I see it. You can’t make a point by spewing more hate. It simply makes your point null and void. Come better next time

  • Angel

    I love Estelle and her music. I love that song in particular❤. Now the song is stuck in my head lol 🎶

  • kneesee

    No chile 😩 same ole Hussie! In fact she had the nerve to post a clip of this show and her video of her “pop pop my butt…pop pop my butt” song right after posting clips of the show. Somebody in the comments said “was this before or after Iyanla Sis? Lol I was dead 💀🤣🤣.

  • Deziree Esposito

    lol, i have never watched her love and h/h.

  • Deziree Esposito

    oh noooo, in hope this show doesn’t operate like a “reality show”.

  • Deziree Esposito

    Did she. lol

  • Deziree Esposito

    Yikes – six tho? nah

  • Deziree Esposito

    Hey guys, to the ones who think she didn’t learn – what indications were observed for you to come to that conclusion? I was watching like, she is faking right here, oh no, she is truly remorseful in this scene. Im not sure.

  • David

    I just don’t understand when the doctor or whatever she’s supposed to be says “you can’t remember when your daughter was sexually assaulted and popped my ass???”
    What in the hell is that supposed to mean? I just don’t get it. It may be slang that a white man can’t understand, but it just sounds weird to me!!?!? So if anyone can explain this to me please do. And no I am not a racist, as a matter of fact I am a white man, but my wife is Mexican. I just don’t get the comment.

  • BoomShakalaka

    Tf? I know. Im talking to ppl from london not asking where dhes from. She is from my area.

  • Daija Hennegan

    iyanla lovesssss a cry, I Can’t

  • QBee

    So this fool’s name is not even her real name…and her Mother is barely light herself…so is her Mum monkey looking

  • J Neka Js

    Yup! Her mama didn’t want to throw her under the bus but u can tell she made that up

  • Ladii Capone

    Hazel E is a damn fool. She only did this show to get the instagrammer’s off her back. Notice how much of a “changed woman” she becomes when the room fills up with dark-skinned girls… who gives AF what irrelevant Hazel E has to say anyway??

  • Stephen Scott

    Pop my butt
    Pop pop my butt
    I’m on six shots of Patron

    That’s a club song that damn-near every girl in the club is doing.

  • mocha brown

    I am dark and I had mean things done to me by other girls when I was younger. This one particular dark skin girl used to call me ugly and wanted to fight me because she said I thought I was so pretty (hey I was pretty cute) still am. And her friend a plus size light skin girl punched me in my face. Till this day if I see a ghetto looking black girl or fat girl I prejudge them. My husband actually called me out because I bash fat women a lot and I didn’t realize I’m still in pain. This was good and I think I will change my perspective of how I see things. I will not judge a book by its cover anymore! This has really helped me.

  • Choose the Red Pill

    I don’t think exactly alike, but they do look similar enough to invalidate her mom’s comment about their looks, which was a really weird statement. It read like subtle alienation, not helped by her obviously not liking Hazel’s dad.

    I noticed that they also sound the same when they speak!

  • Hyewon

    Don’t take it personal, this is about Hazel, not you……seen quite a few different ages post for Hazel in different places over the years…..A normal 40+ person isn’t old but when a person acts out and dresses like 18…runs around with a little boy….record stupid sounding vulgar rap……They will look like a mega old fool just like Hazel been looking.

  • kneesee

    RUNS to Hazel E IG to see if she has changed her life…..

  • thekeep itonehundred

    She’s 37 did u not see them put her age up smh and 40’s aren’t old either

  • thekeep itonehundred

    Lol she 37 not 40 something and her mom is light

  • thekeep itonehundred

    She look just lile her mom…idk why her mom said she looked lile her father.

  • thekeep itonehundred

    Because her mom didn’t want to be embarrassed on national television. You can tell she didn’t want to talk about much and was being very cautious of what she was saying. I think its more to the story tho, Hazel look like she was holding back a lot more.

  • thekeep itonehundred

    Right had me all tearing eyed thru the whole show

  • thekeep itonehundred

    She is from london

  • Pink lemonade

    I noticed

  • BoomShakalaka

    Anyone in the comments from London? Why is edtelle talking like tgat pkease? Lol. Because sis is from ends but shed tolling her “r” ‘s when she says sister etc lol. Anyeay good to see you Estelle but no need for the accent

  • Aleshia George

    Girl bye

  • Chelsey

    Anybody see that lace front⁉️⁉️⁉️?

  • L E

    Do your research. Boy. Your comment is libelous.

  • Jacksonwright Nedra Kookie

    Let me say this I do indeed believe Hazel that she was indeed molested by dark skinned it girls that’s why she has a problem when it always come out about dark skinned girls the way it played out on the show when I just watched it but her mother I wanted to tell her so bad come again bad mom

  • Jacksonwright Nedra Kookie

    She was awfully gentle with hazel but she went for Hazel’s mother jugular just saying and then Hazel’s mother said she don’t remember and two seconds later she remember the girl was molested come on now you don’t forget nothing like that if you really genuinely love your child they need to get better with these fake storylines I mean really are you kidding me you don’t remember your five year old child being child molested

  • HonestA

    I believe Hazel , I think it’s been clear for a long time that she’s lost herself or never knew who she was. She may have come on the show for a little damage control but I do believe she was seeking help also. That conversation with her boyfriend and mother was very telling on love and hip hop and I think her mom is more sinister than we know. Hazel has a very sweet spirit about her and I hope she continues to tap into that .

  • HonestA

    What career is there to save?

  • Kay

    Omg girl, I was just about to comment this. Iyanla can be soo extra and unprofessional. I hate how she even yells sometimes at guests if they don’t give her the answer she wanted. Most people shut down when you yell at them as a defense mechanism so she needs to stop!

  • Qtpi

    Because she addressed the LGBT community and apologized for that. She never really addressed dark skinned black women.

  • jus_saying

    Hazel’s mom needs therapy.

  • Bellacam32

    Iyanla hasn’t been speaking for 5 minutes and already I’m 😢

  • J Neka Js

    😂😂😂😂

  • Larre Noel Alexander

    I don’t believe a damn thing that comes out of Hazel mouth. How the hell you say your mom told you not to talk about the sexual abuse, and then your mom say she don’t remember the abuse. But, then all od a sudden she remember. LOL. How come they did not talk about the things she said offending the LGBTQ community, this shit was pointless.

  • Ms jai

    Ctfu….u crazy as hell lol

  • Chudney Hadura Williams

    personally?

    no. we ALL KNOW.

  • R C

    Calm down you Remy clone. I read perfectly clear and you said what you said which was cause Hazel’s hanging out with Nicki baby to much which implied that she was getting her behavior from her. So unravel your dirty little draws and simmer down because if you have to do all this explaining now it’s cause you clearly wasnt clear before in your comment. You retarded emotional prick

  • Camden

    Yep!!

  • N’Deye Delgado

    I loved seeing Estelle ! Take me on a trip I’d like to go someday Take me to New York I wanna see L.A. I really want to come kick it with you Would you be my American Boy American Boy…. !!!

  • Chloe Jolie

    You telling Harriet tubman to pop that booty 🤪🤣🤣😅😅 this episode was so damn extra😂😂😂😂😂

  • Choose the Red Pill

    Hm, that is true. 🤔 Homosexuality.

  • love

    This was deep as the ocean

  • Thalia

    Pause… Hazel look like a white monkey with a ponytail walkin in Lol … she opened the door 🚪 for that 😂😂

  • J Neka Js

    I personally think she just trying to save her career

  • Nit18

    It was glossed over but it went hand in hand with the colorism, since what happened to her was from dark skinned girls.

  • Nit18

    That’s what I said when I seen her old pics. She got lighter and her nose job made her shit bad. It was okay before, it went with her face

  • Cynthia Watson

    Blah

  • Talk_of_NYC

    Are you dumb or stupid? Who said anything bad about her I clearly said she’s been hanging with her for too long… ms Nikki baby is Persian or something like that which would be considered white and she is actually humbled compared to hazel… Hazel e is black so she must’ve forgotten she was BLACK and came from a dark skinned womans vagina… are you fucking high ? Read dumbass

  • Tasticks

    I do question Mona’s choices but none of those new faces have messed up the way Hazel E has. Plus, she stuck to her guns with Joseline.

  • EducatedRatchet

    Okay hazel..bye!!

  • Chudney Hadura Williams

    hazel used to do PR right?

    …..cooool.

    just checking.

  • Choose the Red Pill

    Okay I’m really surprised by how gentle Iyanla was with Hazel? I could swear she’s usually hard on all the women who come on here compared to most Fix My Life men. She was only hard on Hazel’s mom.

  • Choose the Red Pill

    Something else I’m noticing as I watch: Hazel is unable to comprehend her “flips.” Until she can, she’ll keep acting out the same way. She has dissociation, I think. So horrified by who she becomes when she’s in a rage that she can’t really cope with the reality that that’s her. I do believe she felt something in this episode more than the usual celebrity guest but I also think she’s still “flipping” when she gets into confrontations (since the noose thing was for her haters) because she hasn’t learned how to tame that beast at all. Shit just goes out the window. Behavioral therapy is needed.

  • Choose the Red Pill

    Iyanla, why are we throwing cards and shit off the table? She’s lucky she didn’t trigger somebody with all that mess. I understand the frustration but control yourself, too. You never know someone’s triggers.

  • Jo•Jo

    Yea it’s crazy.

  • Deano Fergi

    First time ever watching to of this show stil not feeling hazel I find her fake and I think she was just acting but does not really care about some of the stuff the women was saying to her

  • Choose the Red Pill

    Well damn, was going through Hazel’s before and after pictures and she was a cute chick. Wonder why she did so MUCH to her face. These are two different women:

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/27012b1859fb763fada5d27f7aef34832c425d10a1618e33ef616311bf7cac1c.png
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/edcd06679d84b2c5c4009fa5a51eac8aa632c2c437d3da2d080bf9a14bd77aec.png

  • Choose the Red Pill
  • Choose the Red Pill

    I am still watching, but I would be open to empathizing with Hazel’s misdirected rage and self hatred if she wasn’t putting nooses in her videos after Iyanla gave her a short Black History Month lesson that Hazel emoted for. I understand that one ep with Iyanla is not going to help her change her defense mechanism (“Hazel E”) because that is how she emotionally survives, but should she not practice self-awareness?

    And so far, Hazel acknowledged her anti-gay comments and anti-darkskin comments simultaneously but Iyanla glossed over the anti-gay part after Hazel mentioned both. I’m glad the colorist comments aren’t glossed over like all other non-black social media outlets have done, but if you’re going to go into why she attacked darker girls, then you should go into why she attacked gay people, Iyanla.

  • Viera

    #metoo

  • R C

    What does Nikki baby have to do with any of This? Do you have something personal against her?

  • Zarah

    Whatever, Hazel is nasty to anyone who don’t act like her delusional bullshit life is real.

  • R C

    The struggle is real. What can I tell u 😥😣

  • mikster

    I hope you had ice cream to make you feel better

  • Ms jai

    Lmao

  • Talk_of_NYC

    I have no choice I had to watch her cry lol

  • Talk_of_NYC

    Hazel hung out with ms.Nikki baby too much she forgot she was black and her mother darkskinned … but oh well lol I understand because it is a lot of bullying within our race from each other .. but girl you 40 something you say you’ve been in the industry for how long , you’re supposed to have thick skin you’ve done changed everything someone made of you about… Be Happy that’s it you supposed to know what and how say those to get the shock value you want without looking like donkey of the day … she’s beautiful but thaaaaat “character ” is not a good look Change your cicle cause real friends will tell you to find your chill

  • mikster

    Lol me too. I didn’t actually watch this

  • mikster

    Yep ugly girl syndrome but she’s not ugly though… I mean her former self.

  • mikster

    Yes they want about this episode all wrong. Poor iyalna wouldn’t have known by watching short clips of hazel e.

  • mikster

    That last part made the most sense. She’s been trying to fit in with the pretty crowd/popular since forever and can’t seem to shake a leg at it. She should have kept her friendship with that one girl.

  • Talk_of_NYC

    Um…. so I’m just here cause I’m waiting for RHOA to upload …

  • Deedee Rich

    Fuck that Bitch she aint learn not one thing on here ! with her fake crying azz. this was just for show and another check period. she still has hate in her blood for her own kind and thats facts just a waste

  • R C

    Knowing her background I sympathize with her although I’m not condoning anything she said. I hope she gets the help she needs and i hope that dark skin woman are kind to her so that it can help her with her healing to understand.

  • Sicily Wilson

    if you can’t see the video on here go to YouTube. somebody uploaded it there lol. but i hope she grows and gets to know and love herself. Love life for you Hazel. You have nothing to prove to the world but everything to prove to yourself. you are beautiful and loved. I hate that people can’t stop kicking hurt people. She already hates herself she don’t need anymore help. Even on the show I would feel bad for her cuz she’s just a girl trying to feel important. what she said was WRONG but I really hope she grows

  • Rhondaboo

    Yes, Mona just might be that dumb because look at all the ppl she keeps picking to be on her shows.

  • COCO 🌶

    Hazel has gotten so pale, she looks White and i hope she’s able to love herself unconditionally.

  • Jade Taylor

    ok i thoght it was my internet at first i was so fucking mad glad i wasnt alone

  • Choose the Red Pill

    Damn, no matter what site I go to this video won’t play for shit. 😩

  • Hyewon

    40 isn’t old generally speaking but it is when we’re dealing with teenage problems.

  • Maven

    Hazel is not fixed and she is a mimic. She’s a good study. She repeats what Iyanla tells her and acts as if she is internalizing it. That’s not good. This is PR and an opportunity to extend her 15 minutes of fame and possibly get some chips. Whoever is handling her is making her go through this humiliation before they give her another chance.

    I think it is ironic that Hazel E has issues with dark skinned women and yet Iyanla, who has women/mommy issues of her own, is a dark skinned women she is pouring her superficial heart out to. Hazel allowed Iyanla to blame her mother for everything. Her mother was not aware of the perceived child abuse incident with the dark-skinned little girls, you could see it in both her and Hazel’s eyes. She just went along with it and agreed for the sake of Hazel’s storyline. She also admitted that they only moved 3 times while Hazel was a kid and each was a normal purpose for moving (moving from a naval base; buying her first town home; moving to a larger better space). She was padding that story.

    Hazel’s colorism issues are real but they are secondary to her feeling of low self esteem from not being pretty enough to be accepted in the circles she chooses to travel in. From the beginning of LHHLA she has had issues with being ugly.

  • Love Jones

    40 isn’t old . However, she looks like shit.

  • Hyewon

    No, she got fired for her behavior at the reunion- a couple weeks before her crazy gay/dark skin ranting.

  • Hyewon

    Again- Hazel didn’t just rant against dark-skin women which makes the bulk of this episode so irrational…..there is nothing redeemable here…..Hazel baby- keep going wit ya 40+ ol ass

  • R C

    25th 😶

  • Lost Sheep

    U right, I already said I wouldnt watch, a Noose, mannn, this bitch is done!

  • speaktheee truthh

    estelle?!?.. what year is this 2010..?

  • Tasticks

    Right. Mona can’t be that dumb.

  • Queen Cocoa

    I agree I believe Hazel has been a jealous ugly friend for a long time, they had an interview with hazel n malissa ford apparently hazel got mad malissa wouldn’t let her all n her business while they were roommates so malissa moved out and hazel spread all these lies about her sleeping with all kinds of men and other things. Malissa wouldn’t even look at hazel seemed like she really didn’t want to talk to hazel. She did apologize though, I believe hazel has been a bad person for years. I see tiara marie moved out on her too . I don’t feel sorry for her.

  • Miracle

    Wow you must have spent a lot of time looking at our profiles and comment history to know who’s flip flopping on their opinions… 🤔 Meanwhile you’re signed into a guest account just to be a hater and keep your comment history from showing. Chile bye

  • mish mash

    Not falling for Hazel E’s performance one little bit. I do believe she is a hurt little girl inside, but I don’t believe her REAL issues were fully addressed in this episode…..I saw a clip on her Insta yesterday of her watching this episode, and all she appeared to care about was how great her glam squad made her look. Still, she only seemed concerned with what’s on the outside. A PR exercise!

  • mikster

    From one reality show star to another, unfortunately this won’t work. Trust me I know

  • mikster

    If this gets her on nobody will watch

  • JJ

    Yal be fake mad on here. Now yal riding hazel’s Wave bc she cried on tv? She cried over young berg. The girl can cry over anything. If she was really trying to fix her life, she wouldn’t be doing it on TV. Smh. Flip flopping.

  • Tasticks

    We’ll see. It’s gonna be hard for her to film since she’s been alienated but if they do, I’m not watching.

  • April_Moon

    It’ll probably get her back on love and hip hop next season, they might’ve made her do it before letting her return 🤝

  • Jus post my damn comment

    no, she stated WHY she said it, she had nothing else to say to dark skin girls that were coming at her. do i agree? no, but thats a logical explanation.

  • Scarlette

    Hmmmm oh so everyone team Hazel now huh????😂😂😂 Guess her master plan to clean up her image has worked! Those crocodile tears must’ve pulled at y’all heart strings

  • ChildofVenus

    Hazel has really redeemed herself in my book after putting herself out there and going on this show. It takes A LOT to open up about your life in front of the world so I applaud her for even doing this. I don’t believe that she’s racist, she just kinda had bad a rough upbringing from what I can tell.

  • Jus post my damn comment

    7:27 She owned it and admitted here fault and why, case closed. I also feel that at her age everything she does is a choice not a mistake, so let her be great at her choices however goofy they maybe. LMAO. After actually seeing her new look she is very pretty now I must say.

  • Ttrini

    Ok well i still think she is horrible lol nice try at this pr tho lol

  • Ttrini

    Same here

  • Ttrini

    Agreed

  • Tasticks

    I agree, Iyanla wasted her energy. Nothing about Hazel is fixed. Hazel knows PR. This was damage control. She’s not humbled.

  • Lost Sheep

    SIGHHHHHHHHHHHH,…………. OK, her Mom was at fault with some of her behavior, she was more worried about her image then Hazel, still is, BUT, if Iylana think she fixed this mess in 45-50 minutes, She need her own life fixed! Hazel put out tht video with the noose AFTER this show! We all know Iylana would of brought it up! Hazel is leaning on tht self destruction button, constantly! She gonna wake up, n the whole world gonna hate her, trust me, male and female of all colors took offense to her mess, esp tht noose! She can kiss all of everything GOODBYE!

  • laidbackgal4real

    I don’t like Iyanla … she always makes me shed tears 💯🌹❤️

  • Lacy4u

    I can’t seem to watch an Iyanla: Fix My Life episode without tears falling. sheesh

  • Inipow

    Thank you , Chere ‘ I too need several moments. In my Remy Ma voice ” These bitches ain’t humble enough”.

  • Ttrini

    Ugh will watch this …..i just need a moment ….