Ready To Love Season 1 Episode 6 – ‘Friends and Lovers’

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On episode 6, the singles take a big leap forward as the ladies begin tp introduce the men to their closest friends, who bring some tough questions. Meanwhile, a shocking answer from one of the men may put a budding relationship in jeopardy.

  • PhD

    @37:36- I generally like Mike. He seems like a cool Dude. But he didn’t bring his GROWN-MAN-“A”-GAME to this heart-to-heart sit down with Shea. If you’re thinking that she’s a potentially good Wife/Mother candidate, then she confides about previously experiencing post-partum-depression… YOU GOTS TO HUG that woman, give her loads of affection, & let her know than you plan to be there for the long haul & rock-with-her-til-the-wheels-fall-off-the-bus.

    @40:04- Some folks may feel like Tiffany was “micromanaging” Alex & needed to “fall back” with her communications expectations. However even as a guy, I empathize & agree with her basic point. “Do what you promise to do.” Period. Yes, if you’re a business owner, manager, or entrepreneur… Your days may unexpectedly change (with little forewarning), but if you really diggin’ a lady, she’s liking you… You tell her you’re gonna call/message her later… Then DO IT. Even if your day unexpectedly changes, you can still message her & say: Babes, several urgent items came up. I’ve gotta work some extra hours & get things resolved. It may be late by the time I finish up. So, I’ll holler with you in the morning… [Most reasonable women would accept that – if it’s not a regular pattern].

  • kneesee

    lol

  • Lacy4u

    I’ve never heard of it either. I read another doctor said it might mean he had influenza that went into his brain or could be a form of meningitis or encepalitis. So basically that doctor never heard of ‘brain flu’ either. smh

  • Lyneshia Hall

    I kinda feel like he is just using Ashlee as his fun girl while Tiffany stress him out… youtube, “fun girl, crazy girl matrix”

  • Lyneshia Hall

    But wasn’t Alex the one that sent one girl home because she wasn’t serious enough and play too much? I feel like Ashlee has just as silly of a personality.

  • Straightshooter

    Now yall know that’s how black people get off the phone. When my brother say, I’ll call you back it be like weeks later. He does it every single time. If something happens to him, I wouldn’t know until after the funeral because I would be thinkin he just aint answering or he’ll call. I give him lead way because he has far more going on in his life than I do so I don’t get uptight about it. When you getting to know somebody you really can’t get uptight because you don’t know what’s going on in their lives and they don’t need to tell you everything because you haven’t established that kind of trust. My brother don’t have to tell me, he got kids, real estate, a job and businesses to attend to cuz I already know.

  • Straightshooter

    Damn! Just goes to show you how life can turn on a dime. I’ve never even heard of a brain flu. I pray he pulls through.

  • NoRage

    Honestly I’d probably cry if they get together because Mike seems to be a persuasive type of guy. I haven’t seen a woman so traumatized about motherhood like I can feel her pain through the tv I’d hate to see her have another kids because of what someone else wanted it would kill their relationship and might destroy her in that process I honestly wanted them to work at first the chemistry is off the chain with those two my opinion is so strong because she’s a person who experienced motherhood first hand and doesn’t want that vs a person who never had a child and is saying no

  • rp

    My prayers also goes out to Alex, he and Ashlee are suited for each other, not Tiffany!!!

  • rp

    He’s “A” one moron!!!

  • cara

    Aaron Is so wack

  • kneesee

    And I don’t get that vibe from him at all. I think the only reason why it’s being brought up is because she doesn’t want any and he does. He is not pressed for a kid, however his intent on the show is pure. Therefore, if he is looking for a WIFE which is what this show is about (not girlfriend) then this is absolutely a matter for discussion. In fact, I believe it’s bing highlighted for this very reason. Prime example how men/women get involve with each other when off the back their or deal breakers instead of moving on before it gets deeper. This is how heartbreaks happen and could easily be avoided.

  • kneesee

    She is the one still on the show so how is he pushing up on her? The men are the one chooses. She is equally responsible. He has had made it Very clear that that is a deal breaker. She is the one given him false hope. If she knows thats not even a possibility for her, then she should remove herself as a candidate for him. It goes both ways.

  • Ms H

    🙂 hahahahahahaha – awready!

  • Jasmine

    Tbh none of these men deserve these women let’s keep it real, lmao Aaron who lied to you? Your not not, at all. Mister teddy bear is cute and all but nah I’m not going to say I want his babies or anything and I ain’t mad at them for not jumping at saying that either. Lool all of y’all men relax yourselves. Your not fucking Nelson Mandela or soemsomet sit down.

  • Lacy4u

    So sad to see the post from earlier today that Tiffany put on her social media about Alex currently fighting for his life due to a brain flu. It appears he’s on life support in the pic. His family has set up a gofundme page, also. Prayers go out to Alex and his family!

  • rp

    Tommie hit pay dirt with this show, LOVE THE SHOW!!!

  • Lyneshia Hall

    I agree. Somehow, deep down, I feel like they plan to do that at the last minute. I think it will switch back to the women picking someone from the beginning to come back. I think Ashlee is going to bring back the guy that that was promoting black men smile… but who knows. The ever changing mix would be dope though!

  • Eleanor Garcia

    Ms H I’m sorry sis I have to disagree! I respect Mike letting ladies know he wants kids. Is it about wanting something deeper with her or just deeper up in her womb? Was zero talk of a future or commitment but ladies NEVER assume. The talk is cheap y’all shut up & show me or that man needs to step aside if I’m concerned. Only credit I will give Mike is if he mans up next week cameras did cut out so didn’t show if he did or not. So far though nah I didn’t approve.

  • NoRage

    With sheas ptsd/her trauma from childbirth beyond is so obvious and time is not on her side as great as she looks her body is still that of an older woman her son is 18
    I doubt it her mind is so made up and as georgeous as she is I’m sure many men have tried to introduce the baby thing with her my thoughts on Shea are been there done that I’m done concerning kids however she wants that partner in life that’ll just love her with out a family addition

  • NoRage

    I honestly wish they had more men in the mix or at least bring in more choices after someone is cut to keep it going longer and really give these people a chance to find a real match

  • Eleanor Garcia

    Exactly yes I do agree! It & when a man a responds like that time to walk the F away!

  • Lyneshia Hall

    I wish they had a female debrief session – not with your friends or your competition. Similar to how the guys go talk to Tommy. I feel like maybe Tommy’s wife should’ve been on the other end to help add insightful comments (like we all are, lol) as the relationship progress. I could totally see them resolving this issue along the way before she got to the level of anger and annoyance if she had someone coaching her too like Alex and Aaron on almost every big decision they make. Someone just needed to give her some advice on how to approach her feelings of him being inconsistent and how to communicate that in a less controlling and combative way. Bc honestly, if Mike and Shea and Tiffany and Alex don’t end up together, they might as well call the show over, bc them choosing anyone else at this point is clearly just to keep the cameras rolling bc they are not even feeling the other women like that.

  • Ms H

    PLEASE SAY YOU SAW MS H SAY IT FIRST – HAHAHAHAHHAA

  • Ms H

    ladies and gents … lets keep in mind we are seeing EDITED versions of the show – we don’t see all of the convos ect.. (referencing mainly how mike seems insensitive towards shae, ect) they are already in puppy love – that girl gonna let her guard down, then panties and BAM – she popping that man’s baby out! i see it already – they getting married and having a cpl kids!

  • Ms H

    you are HILAR!!!! and i think we all have felt that way – (posting on comments a lot ect) HAHAHAHAHAHA – you good – not abnormal or weird (cuz we all are – so that makes you normal) HAHAHAHHAA

  • Ms H

    A WHOLLLLLE MAN! SMH RITTTTA!

  • Ms H

    the way they was twirling fingers n stuff giiirl – THEY GONNA MAKE IT – she will let her guard down once they are serious and established!

  • Ms H

    NAILED IT!

  • Lyneshia Hall

    True – I was expecting Mike to respond with how much he would be there for her and never leave her out to dry (even if their relationship doesn’t pan out) or at least let her know he wouldn’t expect her to have the baby before they have already built a strong relationship and married anyway. I think something like that would have went a long way.

  • kiwi

    yesss

  • Ms. Mk

    You poor soul, ugly recognize ugly.

  • Candy Jones

    Bitctth his name is Alex

  • Candy Jones

    I bet all your friends ugly too

  • Candy Jones

    I understand what Tiffany is saying. I cant stand when a guy tell me he’s going to call me back at a certain time and then call back later on that night or the next day, or the next week and talk like everything is okay. With no apology . then they make excuses. I can’t stand an inconsistent man. They even showed a scene where he was ignoring het calls on purpose . No one is never that busy. Then he gets mad cause she is opinionated and spoke her mind.

  • EducatedRatchet

    Why shatvia or whatever her name us looks like sweet daddy williams from good times girlfriend..something about her is just..ugh…and shea is so pretty but her exmust have been a real piece of work she is traumatized..she needs to heal before she go looking for a man..her son grown and she still feel that much pain…bout the situation….and alex fug ..fraggle rock loking ass needs to go..HE IS EVERYTHING that is wrong with dating a bm in a nutshell….he thinks he is all of that and he is not..i have no idea what they see in him…

  • Eleanor Garcia

    Doesn’t hurt he’s handsome,cute & protective towards her either

  • CAHluvtheSHAW

    It happens…in this era…folks act funny style with technology everyday B…Women do this all the time also its just many dont like when it happens to them.

  • CAHluvtheSHAW

    Another issue not talked about are women that have kids from guys that from the jump didnt want a kid….I can see the dissconnect just from reading the comments on this issue but its a reality of the black community

  • Prive

    You know I can see how people can take it the wrong way bc quite frankly her wordplay was awful and can easily be misconstrued. Misconstrued or not yet and still an impertinent statement. In the end she just comes off childish trying to shade with the big girls but just doesnt make the cut.

  • LaLa London

    Angel’s male friend loves her, she’s just friend zoned him. In my opinion the man you need is right there girl open your eyes.

  • LaLa London

    I love this show!! I love how they don’t live in a house and which stops them from facing the realities of the real world.
    Aaron- bye, he still playing games.

    Mike- Mike been my #1, I agree with the child thing. I just feel shae has a lot of pain attached to a baby and her concern is being left again. I feel if a man has waited for a child (in most cases), he was intentional to have a child with the right person. But, I don’t think Mike is communicating that properly to Shae. I really love them together.

    Alex- I actually love him and Ashlee! I was a fan of Tiffany, but as I have seen her through these episodes she is hurting and never got healing. She’s a very beautiful woman but I can see she is insecure. Her friend made more eye contact with Alex than Tiffany did #noshade!… Alex is a grown man looking for a woman who has it together, he’s a grown ass man he doesn’t have time to build a person’s insecurities, time is limited.

    I think Alex wanted to make things work with Tiffany, but it was her anger, there was no sort of open communication in the choice of words, body language and facial expressions. Tiffany and Rita are the same person, they are holding onto things that aren’t letting them be the best versions of themselves hurt and a man that don’t need to be there (friend’s for what?!!… he is not adding anything to her life but she will always be the back up plan. It’s not like they have children together.

    I think Alex is a really nice guy he definitely has grown on me, more and more every episode. I am not trying to blame Tiffany, but if there’s one thing about men, they will run when they feel pressured, controlled or not listened to. He expressed this before, but her anger and hurt from the past, deafened her to what he said, and she still addressed it in the same way.

    TBH if it was Aaron that Tiffany had this problem with I will tell her, girl you 10000000% right. Difference is Alex communicated his issue, she kept the same attitude. Unlike Aaron who can’t tell Angel you fine but dull asf.

  • COLDCHICK

    Ikr I was rooting for her hard, but this episode showed her crazy side lol

  • Tima Yangala

    Aarons just acting

  • Hmmm… possibly.
    Hopefully, they watch the playback and reconsider. 😉

  • Pebbles

    I just wanted to say: Tommy you’re very attractive !

    Shady Rita! Just shady!

    Why is Aaron acting as if he is into Rita & he is not

  • Coco

    Lol exactly, spot on!
    I don’t know why it matters to certain fonts how many comments you chose to post, especially if people are in agreement with what you’re saying and you are making valid points I don’t see the problem lol.

  • Josie da Goddess

    Tiffany friend gives me the vibe that she will f*k her friend’s man. She gave him a long intimate hug and was also giving googly eyes…and yall seen that damn short ass dress??!!
    Idk but i dont do shit like that to my friends’ men ..

  • Josie da Goddess

    I agree

  • AndWhat

    Look at the difference when having a heated conversation in how mike and shea are touching and tiff and alex siting across the room like battling. Damn i never realized how that can have such an effect. (Learning something =)…)

  • Josie da Goddess

    I agree girl!

  • AndWhat

    Mike there’s no such thing as bending with a child. Like omg that’s not a thing you can take back to the store once you bring it home. That is serious and I hate how much he makes it like its her problem. Maybe think hey we could adopt so she doesn’t have to go through that.

  • AndWhat

    I’m sorry angel doesn’t have that much substance and that’s why she doesn’t intrigue aaron. I think that guy may have been like a sisters husband or something because the way he spoke on her was very protective brotherly (but I haven’t finished the episode could be just a friend). And aaron is high school in his way of love, I think he really likes stormi but doesn’t want to put all his eggs into one basket and isn’t very good at playing it cool with woman he has no interest in.

  • Pebbles

    Tiffany is forgetting that this is a dating show & he is dating other women.
    She had a shot but her behavior has turned humming off

  • Ms. Mk

    Angel is naive. For whatever reason she just can’t seem to see Aaron’s bs. Her guy friend was spectacular in the grilling session, but she seems like a pushover. The disrespect Aaron showed by being hours late, touching her friend’s thigh…come on!!
    Tiffany got too emotionally vested in Alex she forgot that they weren’t exclusive yet. Now she looks mad pushy, agressive and a little desperate. She should let it go and move on to the next coz it’s not gonna work.
    Lastly, Shea and Mike, I love. But the baby thing is a big deal. I would like to see Mike respect it and decide if to move on with shativa or not. Because hanging around with the hope that Shea might change her mind wouldn’t be fair to either of them. Speaking of this no kids thing, I would love to see a dating show for the child free. I have a few ladies I know struggling to find love with other child free men.

  • Prive

    I dont understand why these beautiful woman are letting the guy have full control. Shae if you dont want a baby, dont compromise what your scared shitless of for a man you like alot. Put your foot down. Say I meant what I said end of discussion. If he want you enough and quite frankly has any sense, hed know that time and stability might change your perception on having another child . TIME and growth and truly loving someone not a mfing competion show and a few wks…. He will stop making it a dealbreaker asking you every mfing episode if you stand solid on your own dealbreaker. When he knows that than he can only choose you bc he truly wants to. Double standards… And same for Tiffany, you know something changed… standing in what we truly feel and knowing when to not give in sometimes turns into a beautiful thing.

  • NoRage

    Yes that part I definitely didn’t agree with at all

  • Prive

    Well you guys its NEVER happened to me, NEVER HAD that problem. LOL
    just messing… I get where shes coming from bc us woman we need consistensy. If the pattern of yas everyday changes than we immediately think something aint right. Which is 100% the case, they lost intrest, liking/seeing someone else or something is going on with them.. She shouldve deaded it this episode bc I guarantee most woman who are side chicks are bc a mfer was not honest. she should be hinest with herself too, she trying to hold on when she knows what time it is. Alex scary ass needed an excuse.

  • NoRage

    Yes because sometimes true love and a great relationship could change a persons mind about having children especially since she has been traumatized from her last experience you can see it when she talks about it ..made me feel sad for her

  • mikster

    she need an older man anyways. issa no for me

  • Romz

    It’s almodt like she should have let it go so she doesn’t loose him, and that friend wasn’t helping.
    It just felt to confrontational for Mike but he could have deaded this but was being ignorant.

  • mikster

    you are 100% right, she didn’t say it to him, she’s only saying it in the confessionals. i said this below. if he sees you gagging in your confessional when you mention a baby, its probably a good idea to run lol. She’s not forthcoming when they talk because she likes him and aint ready to let go.

  • mikster

    yea nobody is going anywhere with anyone and they aint doing a good job of making us think otherwise lol. and you right alex probably don’t like bubbles like that.

  • mikster

    yep i hope she keeps it moving, alex aint it

  • mikster

    see you can’t start something then decide to play games later…. ugh!!

  • mikster

    I agree and i said this same thing. it didn’t strike me until she said AT FIRST key word, he was consistent and then he stopped, so that part i get. and now she is trying to get answers and he is dismissing it like oh she controlling and crazy. it aint right lol

  • mikster

    yes! and ive never seen anyone describe caring for a child alone so real and authentic. I was raised by a single parent and I vowed not to EVER be a single parent if i can all help it, so i date extremely cautiously because I personally experienced the struggle with 1 parent, its not fun, its not cute.

  • mikster

    I do agree with you on this point, they push this baby thing every episode, its like dang can i see if i like you? get to know you before you attack my womb? He mentioned it once, twice ok cool but he can’t possibly thing she is chasing her mind in THIS current set up, its not realistic. I say she’s sees other people, he sees other people and if something manage to connect them still after the natural dating process then revisit it.

  • Straightshooter

    If he wanted to just knock a woman up he would’ve done so by now. He’s 40. He wants marriage and a family from what I can tell. Why would a woman go on a show thinking these men aren’t gonna want kids eventually. It’s kind of a shame because they seem to like each other.

  • mikster

    oh wow, see thats exactly what I feel like will happen in this case…. he need to go find chemistry with someone else and so does she period.

  • Coco

    Maybe Aaron would look better if he had some facial hair but as far as I’m concerned I. Don’t see the appeal.

  • NoRage

    I think women and men can and do learn from each other and there are lots of desperate men out there as well and it seems like a game to some trying their best to get a woman pregnant because she says she doesn’t want kids and they do or are so insecure and desperate they feel they need to put some babies in you to keep you around I’ve had a former husband hide my birth control pills When I was clear from the beginning and throughout courtship on up to marriage I never want kids and will not change my mind he agreed and changed up on me then tried to sabatoge me

  • NoRage

    Evan seems like a really good dude he clearly has respect and love for her I wonder if they dated in the past and decided to be friends instead

  • NoRage

    Also he may find someone who wants kids and find out later they can’t concieve … not to wish it on anyone it just makes me wonder would he stay married or divorce and find someone who can

  • NoRage

    I totally get your point but what I see is him still pursuing when she did say she did not want kids in the beginning I get the fact that this is his deal breaker so why is he pushing that agenda on a woman who clearly doesn’t want one her body language is showing it as well that’s why I say tunnel vision concerning Mike. I don’t get the vibe that Mike wants to be a husband I feel like he just wants a kid period he’s been saying it since the show started hopefully he doesn’t choose Shay and change her mind only to cause her pain and regret she seems to really like him

  • kneesee

    He would be my pick.

  • kneesee

    I would have to disagree. Procreation is a major for him and a major deal breaker in his book. I can 100% respect that. Its good that he has asked this question early in the relationship. Can you imagine them going on with life only to realize she does NOT want to have a kid and he does? Thats major to have someone take your legacy on. This is how many ppl end up unhappy and divorce. There are certain things that are non negotiable. Thats like going into a car dealership looking for a car and all they want to sale you is a motorcycle. Well how will you carry your groceries? What will you do in inclement weather?Can you every pick someone up to ride with you? Though it meets your needs of transportation it doesnt overall accommodate what you need.

    There is a difference between expressing the fact that at some point you want a child and acting desperate to have a child with just anybody. He is not asking her to have a child today. Whose to say the relationship will even go anywhere? He is just saying that he does not want to entertain it if its not a possibility. And that is respectable. Wish more ppl were upfront like that.

  • NoRage

    I just feel uneasy about Mike as time goes on yes he’s clearly communicating what he wants but seems to have tunnel vision to the point that he may have scared other women off in the past no one wants to feel like they only have one purpose for their partner. And not to be shady but some gay women and men will pursue a relationship with a straight person to get their baby and then go back with their partner and raise it ok

  • NewbieNubian

    My bad , you’re right, his chyron said 39. Still points stands cause 39 child and marriage less for a successful man, to be, signifies a bit of immaturity.

  • Romz

    EXACTLY!

  • Whoa

    simple communication would put anyones fears to rest. Alexx is too old not to know that. I dont like when black men pull that angry black woman card out on we sisters. Tiff better stick to it and keep it moving because he is not worth her time.

  • Erica Pagan

    This who baby conversation does need to happen but let’s be real most women r left holding the bag, marriage or not. Many of families one partner may become I’ll and the other leaves. Or what if the child has special needs. Do you realize how that is so much more intense that is in life let alone a marriage. Which unfortunately alot of spouses now out because of as well.
    Also with her first kid she said she was alone. She might not even have family or community to help her with another one.
    However spend actual time and years with the person instead of just jumping into being parents. U may not even like each other after 1 month or even 3 yrs and u wanna bring a baby in your mess just cause u want one.
    There r so many important pre factors b4 a baby I think people forget.

  • Whoa

    lol omg that is so funny. now Im picturing her in a movie.

  • Romz

    Yes I agree, that’s why I was saying that Mike is paying the price for how other men has treated her in the past. I’m big on consistency too and it winds me up. And like she said that’s her pet peeve. Shame really because I think they could have had something special.

  • NoRage

    My thing with Tiffany was the level of anger and bringing it up multiple times when it could have been a quick convo along with a wait and see if he corrects it type of situation

  • Erica Pagan

    Also how many times did say the title of the show like they all use that phrase in thier every day vernacular. Lol

  • Jus post my damn comment

    And that’s why she isn’t appealing to theses men it’s like she’s an actress On Some Tyler Perry show with them low budget acting light skin chicks.

  • Erica Pagan

    Wow. Just wow at this show, these comments, etc.

  • NoRage

    They both stated what they wanted and it doesn’t match up but they seem to have real chemistry together so now it just seems like a quest to change the other’s mind or just win the game

  • Romz

    Same happened to me, your so right! Not disputing that Alex is a good man, it’s just about taking responsibility for where your at and communicating that to Tiff. I think he would have got a different reaction out of her. And let’s not forget like what you said above, the moment we become comfortable or drop our guard slightly, some men see that as a sign to stop trying. But good on you for saying your worth more and blocking the dick. Lol

  • NoRage

    I think Mike is trying to see if she could be persuaded just to make a point. He knows she’s not wanting children she said that in the beginning I’m not sure what she’s said off camera but from what I see she clearly doesn’t want anymore kids and I think Mike knows this to be true as well but just wants to keep her around a bit longer to keep pushing her buttons on the subject I’m upset that shay said 50/50 because I think she was trying not to lose the game in that instance and not be true to her wants

  • Whoa

    man her edges are gone ghost

  • Whoa

    omg I thought I was the only one that noticed. Rita speaks like a con artist to me. always trying to sell you something.

  • Whoa

    well thats a perfect opprtunity for her to be like, “You know what mike, I do like you, I think you’re a wonderful man but I am not willing to have a child at all. I don’t want one nor do I want to pressured to have one. If you cant let this conversation go then I have to leave you alone.” or maybe she should just date men with children.

  • Whoa

    so are you saying that to the women that they should stop demanding marriage and a life long commitment? Shea wants someone that is serious with her and ready for marriage but yet she wants it with someone that doesnt have children. is that not being insensitive and selfish? the world is so backwards and hypocritical. so Mike gives her commitment, attention. security all that she asks for and she gives him what? He has his deal breakers and she does too. Maybe if she stops saying “maybe” to having children he wont be led on. See when the shoe is on the other foot and men say what they want to lead women on… everyone is mad but once a woman does it to a man its boo hoo lets feel sorry for the women… NO thats BS. I guess ur cool with her leading him on by saying I miss you and I like you when she knows full well she isnt willing to give him what he wants!

  • OMG! Not packs!?!
    I can hear the howling now…especially here in ATL.

  • Whoa

    I personally dont recall seeing shea open up to mike about her fears. I see her talk about it in her personal interview in details. A real man is a protector and a provider so if he sees an opportunity to do so and reassure her that he is different then thats what he is going to do. the same way he needs to stop going after her she needs to stop giving him hope by saying “maybe” and things like
    i” miss u” she needs to stop leaving the door open cause it is giving him hope.

  • Whoa

    ur so right. I feel like if alexx wanted someone real and mature he would have kept shuntae and stayed consistent wit tiffany. he doesnt want to own up, mature, and be responsible. this happened to me… a guy was loving all on me and I thought to give him a chance and as soon as I did he fell off and stop talking. I questioned him about it and he blamed it on me. I nicely blocked him and moved on. he claims he is the alpha male and he is right. the alpha male in the wild makes the females do all the work.

  • Lisa J. Taylor

    all i know is SHAE!!! {SHE BADD BADD BADD!!!!, SHE BADD BADD BADD BADD BADD!!!!) in my T-Pain voice!! lol

  • Lisa J. Taylor

    shae!!!!!!!!!!! I like Shaeeeeeeeee, and she so pretty!!!!!! i wish her and mike couldve worked out but i dont see it happening now with him wanting kids.

  • NoRage

    Shay is my hero don’t have a kid unless you want one don’t do it for a Man

  • NoRage

    I don’t think Alex likes the young bubbly chick like that he seemed to tolerate her on the date I just think it’s slim pickings and he ran blindly away from Tiffany I doubt if anyone in this bunch really finds a real match on this show I thought shay and mike but the kid thing ruined that match

  • NoRage

    I don’t think Aaron is into stormy I feel like he’s trying to save face he’s pretty much alienated himself from the others he’s just kissing her ass so a female can say something good about him for a change he seems like he low key think women are simpleminded

  • NoRage

    That’s the feeling I get that’s probably why she wanted Alex when they first were talking at the mixer she was like you look good sitting next to ME

  • daniella

    I think this show allows a lot of the ladies to feel insecure. There should have been an opportunity for the women to pick out of multiple men not the other way round.

  • Straightshooter

    Mike is everything periodt! He’s perfect!!!

  • daniella

    I like Mike! I like Alex too. Aaron no, I don’t even know what women are seeing with he’s knuckle head ass

  • NoRage

    I hope he doesn’t compromise on his dream because shay already stated her feelings and opinions about kids I think her face said it all when he approached her about it again…stop asking me about it was the look I got yet he continues to and now he’s adding that he wants the excitement out of the mother to be clearly she’s not the one

  • rp

    Exactly, she’s coming off slightly as a psycho!!!

  • Straightshooter

    He’s not demanding a baby. He’s clear about what he wants. It’s his deal breaker. There’s nothing wrong with that. Women can learn a lot from men because men don’t compromise. Women shouldn’t either.

  • Straightshooter

    Tiffany Godamn!!!! Yall just met. It’s a dating show. OMG!!! Girl relax!

  • Eleanor Garcia

    Yes I agree. He is just so me focused & that’s a huge warning sign. Believe it I woulda walked on his egomaniac ass so quick.

  • Eleanor Garcia

    Mikes demanding a baby pretty much with ladies he’s known for how long? A turn off. Here Shea is showing him her wounds & this mans all about what he wants & how he wants it & any woman better be excited about it? Pushy, selfish & insensitive AF. Turned me the fuck off!

    Tiffani you got issues girl. No wonder bish is single.

    Aaron finally something genuine outta you! About time.

  • 1Love404

    You spelled her name correctly lol

  • 1Love404

    His name is NOT Pastor Troy omg LOL

  • Nova7

    Rita throwing Tiff under the bus bc Alex is her last shot….or at least that’s how I see it.

  • yeah yeah yeah

    Seems they were too tight and too many on her head.

  • Cynthia Watson

    Tiffany is bat shit crazy

  • Nova7

    Aaron was lAte because he ain’t really feeling the girl. When the ol girl who was crazy after him in day one mention that he said he wasn’t feeling Angel. I believe it, immediately!

  • Josie da Goddess

    Aint no way in hell I’m having no man baby if my only child is 18..and I’m 44..and I’m looking like 34. I don’t blame Shea..don’t compromise your stance. A good match for Shea is someone who has grown children or teenagers. Or someone who doesn’t want children. Bc if her and Mike get together there definitely will be regrets,

  • Shanese

    They both went into the marriage agreeing they didn’t wanna have kids (compromise). Jeanie has always known she didnt wanna have kids and strongly expressed that to him, and also kept reinforcing it whenever the topic came up on the real. Later down the road, her husband started to change his mind again. Their relationship started to breakdown for other reasons also (her always being busy and Freddy used to claim he’d go over a month without seeing her at times). Before the divorce was even final, went and got his new girlfriend pregnant and she gave birth to their daughter. The divorce was nasty

  • Juanita Applebaum

    wait so who did they get rid of?

  • Jus post my damn comment

    Ya, but men love crazy women, they only use that excuse when they want out.

  • mikster

    i was confused

  • Faye Oxley

    Aaron is disgusting! I was sooooooo happy when the guy called him out on his inappropriate placement of his hand on the friend’s thigh…. WTF??!!! You touching the friends leg and the girl you dating is right next to you???!!! He’s one of those men who will probably sleep with the friend if the opportunity presented itself. He probably lost his baby mother to inappropriate foolishness like this…They need to get rid of him never mind him eliminating anyone… If he could be with all of them….. he would.

  • Steph Scott

    Pastor Troy is the quintessential nice guy that women are not gon marry.

  • Erica

    Tiffany you need to ease up. Alex is not your man, you are just getting to know him. And I hope Alex, does
    not fall for Rita, I do not trust her, seeing she still allows her ex have access to her.

  • Steph Scott

    This is how the real dating world is. Most women choose the same limited amount of dudes. Those other guys got eliminated for a reason. They are typically the nice guys who women friend zone.

  • Kia Smith

    that’s what happens when u look for woman making 90k a year or better

  • Steph Scott

    I don’t think Aaron is tryna be a playa in this situation. I think he doesn’t know how to be exclusive nor is he mature enough to know what he wants. But I find it amazing that no woman has asked him why his relationship with his son’s mom didn’t work out.

  • Baybeetricia

    Nah. I think he doesn’t really like Tiff as much as he thought. I think the age freaks out a lot of these men on the show. They naturally gravitate towards the younger one (Shea is diff cause she could pass for 25 so…) and since Ashlee is so outgoing and bubbly he can see her a friend and someone he would want to come home to at night

  • Baybeetricia

    Shanta is the one who left last week cause she knew Alex would not pick her (spelled Shanta but pronounced shantay)

  • mikster

    that boy has not said one valuable thing the entire show NOTTA ONE!

  • mikster

    what happened with Jeanie Mai? she got divorced right but what happened?

  • mikster

    there was only one older man and that was pastor chris… paco dont count lol

  • mikster

    thats a really good point. BUT thing is they probably kicked off the older men too soon…. im about to go look at the cast… brb

  • mikster

    all of this…. and Aaron definitely did not deserve a gift with his ole goofy self. 6 episodes in im still waiting on him to say one thing of substance…. ONE THING!!!!

    I cant figure what kind of guy stormi needs but aaron aint it especially the way her friends spoke of how amazing she is…..

    I think angel should have been given a chance with any other guy but aaron….. its hard to see her true personality because aaron is SOOOOO FAKE or maybe she’s just dry.

  • mikster

    I did like alex with Rita but Rita still trying to be a basketball wife. She could have had 2 men but for her stuck on stupidness.

  • mikster

    exactly!! and why cant we go on fun exciting dates like on the bachelor or something, a helicopter ride or take me to a rooftop dinner with some fireworks….. this show only confirmed I need to raise my standards higher cuz they on some basic mess when they all claiming to be the best as tommy is calling it. why we not on a date in hawaii lol.

  • mikster

    which one is shanta

  • mikster

    I think Tiffany just started to look crazy, thats it lol

  • mikster

    Im only upset at mike because he shouldn’t be hanging on a maybe when maybe is basically no foo…. lol

  • Whoa

    why is everyone hating on mike? I actually like mike out of all the men. 1. he is very honest about who he wants and 2. he hasnt led anyone on. Okay yes he wants a baby and it is his right to want a baby. Yes he is just meeting shea and so what? You’re telling me its off limits to ask someone are they looking for marriage and to settle down? I dont see anyone crucifying the women for wanting marriage (a life long commitment), so why are you all doing it to mike for wanting a baby? I dont want to be falling in love with someone and months or years down the line i find out they dont want what I want. sorry! Shea just needs to be honest and say its a no go for her and he needs to move on.

  • Jus post my damn comment

    Seems like Shae is one lucky goddess to be in her mid 40’s looking like she 28. She is the most beautiful woman on the show.

  • Jus post my damn comment

    She is sooo beautiful and i dont blame her for not wanting to ruin her looks for a damn guy

  • Jus post my damn comment

    seems like Angel needs to be dating Evan

  • Jus post my damn comment

    seems like Alex got some from Ashley cuz she extra happy and he extra distant from his number one Tiffany i think she lost that guy

  • NewbieNubian

    Seriously. I don’t see where a 44 year old woman and 34 year old man won’t run into some issues. That’s a huge gap especially when the woman is the older one. Both is the case for Shea and Michael and tiffany and Alex.

  • Baybeetricia

    They don’t normally show who gets eliminated unless the woman bows out on her own. Melinda left and Shanta new she wasn’t gonna get picked so…..those were not surprising.

  • Baybeetricia

    I think Tiff got eliminated…..or Angel.

  • Baybeetricia

    I agree. I feel like they have the women chasing the men…..

  • Baybeetricia

    So…..is Angel friend Evan single??????? No lie, he should have been on this show or she should just date him. I am sure he would know how to treat her

  • I noticed that, too… definitely two different wavelengths.

  • Bwahahaha…not Pastor Troy! No mo play in GA!

  • Shanese

    Alex is full of shit he needs to cut the shit and admit he still wants to have fun. Move around and pave way for the men who are genuinely ready to be in a loving, committed relationship

  • Shanese

    I understand that. She seems mortified by the thought of it especially since her kid is 18 now, and she has been through the hard parts already, it’s understandable she wouldn’t want to do it again and I don’t think something like this can be compromised because then if he gets the baby with her, and she’s hard to deal with because its not something she truly wanted he’ll be left as a single dad. It’s a shame they both want different things because the chemistry is there, but its best to just move on and I hope he starts to realize that. Look what happened to Jeanie Mai. Compromising/settling isnt the solution they both have to be on the same page. Genuinely

  • Jay Elle Maloka

    I think it would be so much more interesting if the first time they gave the men the chance to choose the women they were interested in that they started bringing a new man every week so that the current 3 men would start working harder to prove why they were worth dating… doubt these men would even be in any of these women’s raider.

  • Shanese

    Exactly. She needs to stop dating and go into therapy and finish dealing with that baggage so she can go into something new refreshed

  • NewbieNubian

    I’m sorry but he is way more compatible to a lot of these women than any of these men left over. These men are not for women in their forties especially with them talking about marriage and kids.

  • NewbieNubian

    He is the worst cause at one point he told the host that Melinda and Angel were his tops before he even spoke to the mixed girls. Now it’s stormy this and that, Courtney this and that and I don’t understand where did he spend time with them like that? I really dislike him!! Thinking he’s a gift to these women and doing them a favor…TUH bye ugly

  • mikster

    I’m so mad when he starts talking about Melinda. She might be a lil cray but you still a fUck boy!

  • DARS1

    Chile, he gave me gay vibes. I wouldn’t have picked his ass either.

  • mikster

    I know he’s clearly friend zone but I still like him lol

  • NewbieNubian

    Pastor Troy not being in the cast anymore is proof why these women so successful but still single.

  • Chinkieyez 420

    LMBAO!!! But it’s true.

  • NewbieNubian

    I don’t understand why all these women in their 40s have been set up with me in their mid 30s! Beyond retarded.

  • Steph Scott

    Uh…..Evan is either gay or he’s stuck in the friend zone. Why else would he show up to meet his friend’s potential man?

  • NewbieNubian

    Aaron disgusts me. I didn’t feel bad for melinda at first because she was so damn thirst and then on top of that she was DISGUSTING at the dinner with the Pastor who wasn’t feeling her either but still kept it cute and entertaining. But Aaron is ugly and a gaslighting prick. The only reason so many of the women were on his nuts is because he continues to and constantly misrepresent himself and the pickings are slim asf!

  • mikster

    I’m not even sure if he would make a good lay at this point.

  • mikster

    good question. I be so caught up in the chemistry my darn self!! But you may be on to something. I wasn’t paying attention their convo so I’m not sure if she conveys the message as strongly in person as she does in the confessional. I bet you 700 though if he watched her confessional he would run fast. ain’t nobody got time to convince you lol.

  • YES! I thought I was the only one that caught that.
    Only repeating ish, stalling for time to come up with a new lie…. smh.

  • Yes! I love how he called Aaron out on every turn (like Tommy), makes me think he’s used to only being around guys that co-sign his BS.

  • Oh, I know… I just wonder if he heard it. 😉
    Kinda makes me think he’s only listening to hear what he wants.

  • mikster

    she did actually say she’s afraid.

  • mikster

    I vote no lol

  • Coco

    She has a lot of unresolved issues and hasn’t quite amended them, so she’s bringing the same baggage into some new situation. Which would possibly scare any man from getting to know her, she’s way too clingy.

  • mikster

    Shea should find her a man with adult kids period. You can be all memorized by Mike but if you gagging talking about a baby it’s gonna be a no for me dawg. Shea is no doubt drop dead amazing but it’s rude to put her in such a compromising position asking her to consider when she doesn’t even really know who you are.

    I’m actually on the fence with tiff. She had a valid point that when she was top on the list he was consistent. Then he changed and that’s not fair no matter how many folks in the picture. don’t start something then get upset when you can’t finish it.

  • Coco

    Lol I don’t blame, but on serious note it must’ve been traumatizing for her juggling being a single mother alone with most likely no help from the baby’s father, I can understand why she would be so against not wanting to have children. She has a tough decision to make.

  • mikster

    too late.

  • mikster

    I’m here for evan!!!!

  • mocha brown

    Right Alex trying that lady, say you gonna call in 30 min call in 30 min

  • True. He sounds like he’s loved her for a long time. I just hope she doesn’t overlook him for the dirty dog type *coughs Aaron*. LOL

  • Shanese

    Aaron is a shambles. I said it last week Ima say it again, Aaron still gives me fuckboy teas. That woman still in contact with her ex needs to get off the damn show because she’s riding the fence and Alex gives me the vibes that he can be a little controlling, however Tiffany is 41, by now her priorities shouldn’t be her man calling her morning, afternoon and evening. She’s expecting too much for something thats not a serious situation yet, and its no surprise that she’s disappointed. Angel is beautiful I do think she suits her friend Evan better. Stormey is cool and so is Ashley I hope they get the love they deserve. I think if it wasn’t for the baby situation, Mike would’ve already decided that Shea is the one for him

  • mocha brown

    Mike is annoying, Aarron is off, and Alex is cool. With Mike I can see past his nice ways to his controlling side. The first time he doesn’t get his way he won’t be happy at all. Aaron is a little slow and shallow. He still has a childish immature personality and he is afraid to tell his truth because he is a little stuck up. Alex is a undercover player. He does what Aaron tries to do but can’t. Tiff just doesn’t like to lose, she has a huge ego. She would rather bow out than not be chosen first which I get when you like to win. She is sabotaging herself on purpose. She knows what she wants.

  • Coco

    Yeah, he’s memorized by her

  • Coco

    I pray I look as good as Shea doesn’t when I’m in my 30’s she’s absolutely stunning. Wow!

  • Coco

    Yeah, he seems to see recognise and acknowledge her traits and speak so well about her.

  • Coco

    I’m embarrassed for Tiffany, she needs to stop feeling entitled and insecure and be open minded enough to take advice from her friend because she’s absolutely right. The more she continues to persist and control Alex the more he will withdraw himself from her and she will end up getting her heart broken because of how invested in him.

  • thraxxblowa

    SORRY TIFF U GOTTA GO PERIOD UR TOO CONTROLLING N NOT OPEN FOR CHANGE U THINK ITS SETTLING BUT ITS REALLY CALLED COMPROMISING DUMMY WHICH IS WHY UR SINGLE NOW

  • I think if Michael focused/spoke more on having a lasting relationship with Shea instead of every other word out his mouth being “baby”, she’d be more open. Their body language spoke volumes. Makes me wonder if heard her saying that she’s afraid of doing motherhood again, alone.

  • Angel needs to get with her friend Evan. He CLEARLY sees her for the beauty that she is. I think the fact that he saw what she was about to settle for with Aaron made him step up and low-key challenge ole’ squinty. lol

  • I just want to give Aaron either a pair of prescription glasses or some Visine – all that damn squinting is NOT attractive.

  • Yep. She wants “loving actions” in a “like” situation.

  • Chinkieyez 420

    Yea Tiffany is doin tew much her homegirl even tellin her to fall back but she’s not havin it which is why Alex bout to give her the boot.

  • R C

    Damn whats homeboys name was straight hitting on homegirl right in front of her. Lol. I dont know why but Aaron looks like he’s sick to me. When homeboy stood up I thought he was going to keep going he was so tall. I was not expecting that at all lmfao. I think Alexx and that young quirky girl make a good match. They seem very compatible I think they should connect and see where it goes. Tiffany is a damaged woman she takes out her past aggression on the future men she meets and like that she won’t ever find a real man who will truly open up and love her. The only men who she will capture are men who are attracted to her so called “spiciness” and they will only tolerate it for a short while b4 it gets tiring. And I dont know why but Aaron looks like he’s sick to me.

  • Shalom DCMdVA

    yep. He hugged Tiff’s friend in a passionate way…. I was shocked!

  • Miss Lady

    Alex want the friend lol