Black Ink Crew Chicago Season 5 Episode 6 – ‘Phor’

On episode 6, Lily sees Junior and Adriana for the first time since Jamaica, and Don struggles to be there for both his dad and Phor as they battle depression. Meanwhile, things get tense when Jenn confronts Van.

  • Jai

    It’s funny how all of y’all wanna be crying tattoo tears for Phor NOW but for the last past episodes y’all were making ALL types of jokes about the video incident. Questioning his sexuality, his work relationship with London and other stuff…I’m pretty sure all of the bashing over the video DEFINITELY contributed to his depression.

  • jondi

    I have three sons and even though they will grow to be men I pray they keep love for themselves and each other, and that they have compassion. Too many times we expect Men to not be vulnerable, to be hard and not show emotion. Shout out to Van and Ryan for being their brothers keeper ☺️

  • jondi

    I found her and she had pictures up of herself from high school and she was a she then . Maybe she really did just tell that man she wanted to eat his ass

  • Doris G

    Adrianna compassion towards Lily in her confessional was funny. Lily knew what she was doing.Ryan is a true friend and brother to Phor. Let us keep Phor in our prayers, “DEPRESSION” is a serious mental illness. People that are going through “MENTAL ILLNESS need to get help, those that have suicidal thoughts, I say this, we in this world need you because regardless how one might feel or think, you are loved, and understand that you really need to know that your life is valuable and has an important purpose.

  • Babe

    ik i was like he kicked her out like she was a prostitute or something. He does not respect her at all coz you don’t talk to people that way

  • Babe

    yeah, I was like i am not surprised his acting this. He went from having everything to nothing in an instant then being nationally embarrassed and his ex is living her best life, I wasn’t shocked

  • PrettyNetty28

    Probably. He’s concern was with Phor and his emotions started getting the best…

  • PrettyNetty28

    Yes it will definitely take time…question? Why have her around if he’s still doubting her loyalty? Forget he’s a Gemini.

  • kre

    nobody has mentioned the transgender that came out about an affair with “she” and Phor. That’s why he was acting like that, he didnt want it to be aired.

  • Beaushan

    Oh, it is the video beneath. Ha! I never watch those.

  • Beaushan

    What happened to the scene with EsomethingNita?

  • Beaushan

    Is it really so hard to let people be who they are without denigrating them? We are only responsible for our own actions. Other people have to deal with theirs. No one on this planet is God or god like and we really need to stop doing the job of the creator.

  • Beaushan

    She deserves it. She tried to destroy him so I guess it is going to take some time for him to forgive but you can tell he loves Charmaine.

  • Beaushan

    That hair has him like a chameleon! Every hairstyle makes him look entirely different person like they are characters.

  • GG

    Honestly it doesn’t matter where they were at. I don’t care enough to disprove it. They were making out, which leads me to believe that they’re dating. Also, “dating” is subjective. Some people consider going on a few dates as dating, which is different from being in a relationship

  • Tinisha MrsHarper Sutphin

    I guess he wanted to have a man to man convo with Phor. Yeah he could’ve said it a different way but this time i dont think he meant to come off harsh!

  • Rosi

    No there’s a video of them at the strip club. Not proof they’re dating.

  • Lynn

    I Also know what its like to suffer from depression i started suffering from
    Depression as a child as well and when my uncle died it went from sadness to full on depression for years and my family knew i was depressed and they did nothing to help me.

    I went and found help and i called some of the depression help lines when i really was struggling and could no longer cope with the pain i was feeling on the inside and honestly it really helped me i even found free resources and I remember speaking to one person on the line and they had given me there direct work number so i can reach out anytime i was really going through it.

    I say all this to say there are many resources available for u if you need it just try it everyday is a battle and i hope that if u are suffering with depression or any mental disorder that you know help is available i wish u the best you are not alone.

  • Wesley pipes

    God bless you man I appreciate that!

  • Lynn

    The worse feeling in the world is feeling alone and being depressed and feeling like nobody understands you.

  • PrettyNetty28

    Sis. Thank you . I thought it was only me…he doing too much.

  • PrincessZ

    So many are suffering with depression, anxiety, PTSD and not everyone realises they themselves are. I always say it is important to communicate verbally and non-verbally and by actively listening. I’ve suffered with all three and was fortunate to be able to get therapy for free (thanks to the great British NHS) not everyone has that opportunity, however being able to lean on family and friends can seriously help. We need to judge people less and love each other more.

  • Vanessa

    Right! He def said get up at first. I did not see the need for him to talk to her like that at all…

  • Ama

    It’s entertainment dumb dumb

  • PrettyNetty28

    Eww.. Ryan be harsh when talk to Charmaine sometimes. S**t I thought he said “get up” not . Get out! And with that NOW.! On the end.

  • PrettyNetty28

    Don is that dude. Very ethical he is with (minor everyday issues)…. a family man, compassionate.✨

  • Marz

    Thank you

  • QBee

    Adriana is like ‘I won….she lost’….like he’s some great prize..Jr was into Lily more than she was into him..she was hoeing around on him…poor Phor.hope he finds a way out to light.

  • Paizley

    Def not helping Thor’s situation

  • GG

    I know! Hella random, but majorrrrr upgrade

  • GG

    They are, I didn’t pull that out of my ass. There’s video evidence, Google it.

  • LaReyna09

    I genuinely sympathize and empathize with Phor, as depression or any variety of mental illness is a hard thing to live with. It’s easy to put that mask on to appear and attempt to function as if everything is ok, when in fact you feel like a part of you is dying everyday and that you’re sinking further into a dark abyss that you can’t be pulled out of. It’s no joking matter to feel worthless or that you’d be better off no longer on this earth. My heart goes out to him and I truly hope he receives the help and peace that he needs.

  • LaReyna09

    That hoe was ULTRA disrespectful! But I blame Van for giving her the impetus to even carry on as she was doing. I would’ve stomped her halfway through the earth and Van would’ve gotten stomped right after her.

  • Pebbles

    Are

    people need to stop putting there self out there in public , knowing they have problems

    People need to stop poking the bear and commenting under post if the can’t handle what comes after that .

    How about that .

  • Jus post my damn comment

    Phor that thumbnail pic for this episode( above the video ) is definitely a Jack’d / Grindr pic

  • Khalil

    I am surprised none of ya’ll made this observation yet… They need to get that Bella chick the same help as Phor. I can see that plane crash happening before they leave the ground! She is battling some serious depression and alcoholism. When Charmaine and the white girl were discussing Phor in the kitchen you can see the look of concern in her face that they were talking about her. She has had 1 meltdown after another since she showed up And just look at the people she chooses to be intimate with.. Lily who is borderline bi-polar and that sus looking dude who is about to get his ass whooped next episode. lol. See ya’ll next episode.

  • jus_saying

    Pray for Phor.

  • jus_saying

    That’s not funny. He’s dealing with a serious issue since childhood that killed his sister and could cause him to loose his dad too. NOTHING to joke about.

  • Shacora L Jones

    Lol you’re right u don’t have to accept shit. All u have to do is mind your business and let ppl live their life. It’s not my business who people decided to lay with but I refuse to judge them. Because I’m far far far from perfect. We all do some fucked up shit and we all have to answer for it individually. I don’t have to answer for what he does in his personal life. If he isn’t raping stealing or murdering I could care less. And if everyone just minded their damn business and stop judging the world would be a better place! Mind the business that pays you ! Simple concept !

  • :/ Yurr

    Jen always yelling because she always hurt.

  • Ama

    Bitch I just said I don’t like any of them. I don’t idolize them like you

  • Ama

    Hell yeah she was lol

  • Paige Banks

    LMAO

  • LaNiece Robinson

    Bitch this is your life, huh….Barking for Phor you raggedy mutt…lmao….I’mma block yo bitch ass too…

  • LaNiece Robinson

    The only thing deluded around here is your alpo mixed with mud….lmao..Bitch didn’t I tell you that you didn’t comprehend…lmao…I pity the inbred bitch that was in heat and had a litter of simple retarded mutts…Way to bark for Phor…lmao..Please don’t worry about my life, you betta be watching yo back before the dog catcher round you up…lmao…But, then again you will be reunited with your family…So Score for you, huh bitch….

  • LaNiece Robinson

    You are the typical retard…You’re regurgitating everything I’ve said to you…No mind of you own, no bone of your own, no bowl of your own, no newspaper of your own…A typical mutt…I see you chose to come back, so please go kill yoself, niglet…

  • GetBodied

    Stop harassing ppl period, depressed or not

  • GetBodied

    And yes ppl who change for the better deserves a pat on the back!

  • Lyric

    Amen!

  • Pebbles

    No one knew about his depression until now. If we had known, probably would’ve taken it easier on him.

    DOn said : he was diagnosed as a child , so was he in meds & decided to stop taking them because he felt ok or didn’t feel he needed it ?

    What’s the deal 9 mag family?

  • Pebbles

    Junior girlfriend was dumb for even entertaining that bull crap

  • Pebbles

    They’re enjoying each other company ( 50 and Nikki)

  • Skurdy cat!!

  • Ama

    Lily miserable so others gotta be too..

  • Ama

    Do you know the definition of toxic? That doesn’t mean being promiscuous lol she was with a couple people aside from junior but that’s irrelevant. So she deserves a pat on the back for behaving like a grown woman now… she didn’t slap the cup out her hand because the chick was in her feels. Didn’t attack Charmaine because that’s unprofessional.. things she shouldn’t have been doing from the jump. She’s not as violent this season but she’s still vindictive, and messy.

    Juniors girlfriend felt bad for her lol she literally said that… junior is a drunk & lily is sloppy lol they belong together.

  • crazes

    Ok thanks.. effed up, both the production and this women tried to expose him.

  • Straightshooter

    Porch Monkey!

  • Maecl Lourde Romaneo

    Yo mamma, h0e!

  • Rosi

    Yeah, so loyal she cheated on Junior with her ex Plug.

  • Rosi

    They aint dating.

  • GetBodied

    That’s what I’m saying. Everybody mad because she told but if it was their hurt feelings they’d probably run their mouths too.

  • PowerFanatic

    Idk what it is but I have always took a liking to Lily. Im confused why so many ppl hate her. Lol. She seems to be an honest and loyal person.. just based on what I HAVE SEEN

  • Straightshooter

    Jigaboo!

  • GetBodied

    She was only really with junior…how is she toxic? This season she has been really chill. She didn’t smack ol girl when that girl smacked the cup out her hand. She didn’t go in or fuss with Charmaine about taking her off the list at the tattoo convention. Juniors girlfriend n lily are not friends…fuck she tryna console lily for?

  • Shacora L Jones

    I’m not about to argue with u about who someone else chooses to have sex with. Not my business. Not my concern. And I’m not gonna demonize someone for their choices that aren’t hurting anybody. They have to answer for what they choose to do in this life not me.

  • Rodney L. Robinson

    AS IF IT WERE A BAD THING? LOL . LADY TWO DICKS WERNT MADE TO SLAP AGAINST EACH OTHER OR TWO PUSSIES RUBBING AGAINST EACH OTHER FOH.. THAT SHIT NASTY AND WRONG AND NOBODY GOT TO ACCEPT THAT SHIT.

  • Jus post my damn comment

    Lily that wig? What in the Tina Knowles is going on there? That brown wig is a lot to take in.

  • Rodney L. Robinson

    FOH PHOR IS JUST UPSET EVERYONE KNOW THAT HE WAS SENDING HIS BUTT HOLE THROUGH THE CAMERA. JUST COME ON OUT SIR…. HALF THE EARTH IS GAY NOW LOL. IF U LIKE BOY BOOTY JUST BE HONEST 🙂

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Ugh Lily!!!!!

  • Leigh

    Thank you so much! Honestly I’ve never thought I would have had the courage to say this, esp on this comment section because ppl are damn vicious sometimes, so I do hope that somebody got something from this. Thank you again for appreciating my bravery because I never say anything, but felt it was time. Peace and much blessing to you as well queen.

  • Leigh

    No thank YOU for saying that and being receptive to my comment. I don’t really like talking about it, esp on something so public like this comment section (because sometimes I still feel ashamed, and u know how some ppl think everything is for attention nowadays *eyeroll*) but I reached my goal today because at least someone (you) got something out of what I was explaining. I hope you get all the healing and peace of mind that you deserve queen.

  • Tima Yangala

    I believe ppl thirsty and did hit up Lily it ain’t like they got high standards

  • Ama

    Furtherest thing from real actually. Her toxicity is real lol

  • Ke

    Same mom I believe

  • Camden

    You are right.
    One’s do not be trying to share their personal space..
    So that was very altruistic of him.

    Someone tell me. Are Phor and Don really blood brothers? And if so how?

  • ShelbyMoore

    One of the dudes that Phor went on the date with is at the end of Episode 2 in the previews 40:40 mark. They never aired that episode…

  • ShelbyMoore

    One of the dudes that Phor went on the date with is at the end of Episode 2 in the previews 40:40 mark. They never aired that episode..

  • ShelbyMoore

    One of the dudes that Phor went on the date with is at the end of Episode 2 in the previews 40:40 mark. They never aired that episode.

  • Lyric

    I’m bipolar and suffer from anxiety and PTSD!! This post helped me!! Thank you!!

  • Leigh

    Oh thank you so much, I’m surprised someone read all that lol. I appreciate it tho, I just want someone to feel like “oh okay so it’s not just me and I’m not the only one dealing w/ demons.”

  • leowoman

    I read that as well, which seems like it is possible. It’s almost like Phor had an episode to let the producers know they need to chil before he end his life. Possibly.

  • leowoman

    It wouldn’t be JUST Nikki, but I bet she was a trigger.

  • Nia Nicole

    You’re right and I can’t understand why they ask for privacy when shit hits the fan after playing every waking moment of their lives on TV

  • Paige Banks

    lmao right. listen i will never in my life wear a cup because i’d be too scared smth would go wrong and i’d be uncomfortable the whole time but more power to those brave enough to do it.

  • Lyric

    God bless you!

  • Lyric

    Lily is vindictive! Why tell junior’s girlfriend that now? She knew what she was doing! Poor Phor! Mental illness is real, and a stigma in black culture. Let’s lift each other up!

  • Lovë 22

    To the executive produce Rasheed stop capping, Van TOLD you he was going alone and without cameras!! Trying to make it seem like it was your call!!

  • GetBodied

    Depression is real. The video, Nikki finally left…he don’t know what to do. I know social media ain’t shit and can make you depressed if you let it. Pray for phor.

  • Lovë 22

    She should took a page out of Rachel’s book!!

  • GetBodied

    Lily is the realest on the show, she just had a moment of weakness. Her feelings were hurt.

  • Lovë 22

    Lily shut up Junior brought ol’girl around last season, she acting like this her first time seeing her lol. Lily so fake, how do you say “I’m not the type to ruin with they got” but in the next breath try to ruin what they got by telling Adriana that Junior was hitting you up! Girl…

    Why does it seem like Lily be trying to f*ck everybody relationship, by telling their significant other that they tried to sleep with her or something, Lily, chill you not that bad ma!! We just seen this scene with Van last season!

    Why Jen always yelling?

  • I’ve tied it and have no aversion to the diva/organic cup. It works really well, is cost effective and suits those who are clean, conscientious and about that “green” life – but IMO Charmaine is not a good ambassador because she’s so damn sloppy and stank-looking.

    Hopefully, young WOC will do their own research and give the “cup” a try!

  • Rochelle JustluvmeBack Jones

    I’m so proud of Don… because yes your dad is gonna need more than just a pat on the back and a ITS GONNA GET BETTER. His dad needs to stay with him. a change of environment. And most people won’t offer that to you… knowing that you wanna end ya life. I have to commend Don for offering his dad those accommodations, because most people are too selfish to do that or to even see that what is needed.

  • Takiri

    I’m very sad, nobody seen it before! We just see part of they life! Ppl that really love see the sign before now!

  • Ama

    The post he put up with the noose and y’all sitting here talking about his sexuality.. grow up. Mental illness is real.

    & Lily a snake.

  • Savagery

    Not that I am aware of, she said that they had her and her friend come and do scenes but did not air any of them. Although someone else said that she appeared in the episode at the Halloween party.
    Since we cannot post links here I just copied some info from an article that talks about it. It is below:
    After she realized that many of her scenes were removed from the show, Tiffany decided to spill the tea on what she says happened. She claims that their scenes were cut because she claims that her friend, who she says is transgender, she didn’t like that at all even though she posted this message on her Instagram:
    [email protected]_mileaann sorry boo vh1 actually flew us out to Chicago from Ohio to be a guest on the show paid for everything. 1st class round trip tickets, car service, hotel plus we got paid!! They just edited out the actual reason we were there because Phor started threatening suicide and was saying he was going to quit the show! The tea was my best friend was Phors mistress and the one he was sending them freaky a$$ videos of his a$$ to but the real tea is she is trans and they had sex a few times! But they cut all of that sh$t out and yes we have all of the receipt lol and just know we had mic’s on that’s why you can clearly hear me arguing w/her.
    A few months ago, the video in question was leaked, which caused Phor and his girlfriend Nikki to break up. Nikki was embarrassed, she was ride or die for her man and to play her like that was a stab in the heart, she decided to leave the hit reality show. She has been humiliated enough but she don’t have to worry, she’s a smart and beautiful young lady, a great man will scoop her up.
    Phor never appears to be happy, maybe he’s into men and can’t come out for fear of his fans and the people he is close to and what they may think about him. It really doesn’t matter what anyone thinks as long as he isn’t hurting anyone in the process.
    The video that leaked was “different” because in it, he specifically focused on his booty, leading some to suspect that he may have some gay or bis*xual tendencies. Ya think, focusing on your booty as a man seems a bit too much for me.
    Allegedly, VH1 flew out the girl that he was messing with and her best friend. According to Tiffany, Phor begged VH1 to edit him out where it shows him allegedly messing around with a transgender woman. Phor would never be the same if that transgender has some real proof, like riding or s$cking his d$ck while smiling.
    Phor needs to get it together, he has so many missed opportunities because of 9MAG and himself. Sometimes people will be so close to their dream and sabotage it. The pressure could be getting to Phor but that’s what being a reality star and an upcoming rap star is all about. What more could you ask for? Just leave the male booty alone, please!

  • GirlFriend

    When you feel alone, sometimes theres no one who can make you feel better. You feel how you feel and your mind will easily have you thinking no one could understand where you are.. In those moments you have to breathe, talk through what you’re feeling with God and someone who loves you and speak that “thank you God for helping me through this” .. my heart broke for Phor, he should definitely value his life and the time he has more.

  • Ama

    Phor looks different in that thumbnail. High, sick, tired or maybe I just never really looked at his face close up.

  • Bri Truthful

    The friend of the trans babe put it all out there and exposed him anyway because they didn’t get no time on the show smh

  • Sicily Wilson

    I felt so sad for Phor. I re just heart wrenching that we struggle with feeling like nothing because the world does it’s best to treat us like nothing. Kiss y’alls babies every night and tell them you love them and that they are beautiful. They can be who ever their hearts desire them to be. We need to spread more love amongst each other for real.
    P.s. Larabeeta was outta line for telling Jen that

  • The girls name on Instagram is 2nd_2_no1 she claims Thor sent that video to her. Production flew her out to be in one of the episodes but she was edited out. That’s why production feels bad about what happened. They tried to out him on national TV

  • The girls name on Instagram is 2nd_2_no1 she claims Thor sent that video to her. Production flew her out to be in one of the episodes but she was edited out. That’s why production feels bad about what happened. They tried to out him on national TV

  • Priscilla Dixon

    Phor crying cuz he ain’t going never make as a gay rapper and Nikki know the truth …he was gay …and now he thinks his career is over and life …let’s just be honest …he wanted to be on dl for a while but didn’t work out.he got outed on national TV …I don’t think it’s about no Nikki ..cuz men can care less ..you know how many women flocking on him because he on TV ..it’s just now everybody going call him gay now

  • Priscilla Dixon

    Girl you think he mad about Nikki he sad because he a rapper and now hes Know as a gay rapper …you get it …ain’t such thing as a out gay rapper ..I know for a fact is because he got caught up in some gay as shit ..if he had to bad bitches like Nikki and cat …that’s not the reason why he crying …he was a down low dude outed… nothing can hurt worser than that ..

  • Maecl Lourde Romaneo

    You sure love to c00n for massa huh?

  • Maecl Lourde Romaneo

    Phor needs to just come out with the truth, that he likes dudes or trannies as well as women. Yes, some ignorant ppl will call him a [email protected] but the hardship of holding in his truth is killing him from the inside out.

  • Straightshooter

    Lies!!!!! More whites are shot by cops! Just dumbass people who don’t wanna look at the damn numbers. Some of us know better.

  • Made Jade

    I bet you’re white huh..?

  • Made Jade

    I bet your white.

  • Jay W

    Depressed is NOTHING TO PLAY WITH ! If it wasn’t for me having my oldest child 3 years ago … I feel for phone because I know how that feels … It’s hard to deal with sometimes.. Depression can be Soooooooo over whelming.. I just sleep and play with my kids when I am depressed .. Or try too .. My support system is Awesome thou.. My Boyfriend is there everytime.. Phor please get help PLEASE ! I love there support with Phor you have all those who love you Phor I know it’s hard but hold on.

  • Rosi

    Yea but no one’s making celebrities get in front of cameras or on social media, so it’s hard having sympathy for them. That’s the life they asked for.

  • Rosi

    I’m sorry but I can’t with Ryan’s funny ass hairdo’s.

  • crazes

    Do you have receipts?

  • Camden

    Hug Your neighbor!!!
    :)))

  • Camden

    lmaoo hell yea it did im cracking up!!!

  • Camden

    lmaoooo!

  • Camden

    Very well stated!
    I like that.. #BeingKindIsFree

    We Chicagoans should go up to 9mag and Sing “ChiTown” all in front of the shop in support of Phor! :))

    We rooting and staying prayful for you Phor dear!

  • And she will never be happy if she doesn’t change. Junior is in a healthy relationship she needs to chill. Envy was written all over her.

  • Dez Nuts

    Just hearing Phor say that one thing he wanted to accomplish for that day was to drown himself, made me cry. Like I can’t believe that; that was real live a goal and nobody would’ve known what he was thinking. I’m happy he spoke up; I hope he’s alright now, and I hope he got the help he deserves.

  • Revolution_Cudjoe

    Phor gon’ be alright he just depressed because Nikki bounced and he know somebody else (50 Cent) about to GTD (Get the Draws)!!!

    Phor, shouldn’t beat himself up over it. Plenty of other fish in the sea…If you had to go outside the relationship in search of something else, and she has no interest in finding out why (ex: Couples Therapy/Heart to Heart talk) that just means she wasn’t for you.

    He should spend more time in the studio, working on his craft. He seems genuinely happy when he’s in the booth minus London. Give the show a break and chase your dream brother! Nothing sounds better than music crafted out of ones sorrow.

  • Nia Nicole

    So right. I hate when they play their lives out on TV/social media and get mad when folk comment! Keep it to yourself then!

  • Janeen Russaw

    Phor needs to be honest with himself once he is truly honest with himself everything will fall into place he has love in these streets and home

  • Shakendria Murphy

    It wasnt met like you just tried. Yes all races suffer but most black men have been taught not to cry man up put your chest out act like a man
    Ect things like that and it makes it harder for them to come out if they have problems. And when they do you they get shamed called soft and if you take a good look in the comments his being called gay and got people like you trying to flip it around or act like you know everything behind the scenes or gotta jump on someone elses opinion.

  • Russell Smith

    Yea i agree and im glad he took some absence from the show after this.
    Also while a kinda agree with you on the “guilty of chiming thing”, cause i am too; I dont think people are at fault for just making an reactionary comment to an episode they watched cause they are just stating their feelings about the episode.
    I think the bigger problem comes when a person with no life decides to find the persons social media and go out of their way to bash them based off it. It shouldnt be taken personally like that.
    In the end of the day this is meant to be entertainment and should be treated like it and not taken past that.

  • Maecl Lourde Romaneo

    All races aren’t getting shot dead in large #s by white cops.

  • rp

    She is just nasty!!!

  • Straightshooter

    Sound like some ole Pickme shit. smh That’s why there are so many baby mams cuz yall dumbass believe everything these men tell you. Whether you act up in front of her or not. She might look like the fool but in the end YOU will be the fool

  • YoungFabulous

    Charmaine telling people to get dressed she the one need to go get dressed with them titties hanging everywhere

  • Straightshooter

    I bet you got somebody in your family right now going through some shit right now but you worried about Phor.

  • Straightshooter

    The community is too busy twerking and fighting or killing in the streets. Aint nobody dealing wit shit!

  • Shakendria Murphy

    I made the same comment on youtube. Im so worried for don because he seeing all over again and i fear for phor.

  • Straightshooter

    Oh stop with the black man shit! All races suffer from depression.

  • Bright Smile Miss Wilder

    I agree with what you’re saying and I am sure the trolling and bullying triggered his depression and that’s what I’m saying!!.

  • LaNiece Robinson

    I didn’t say you were anything, I asked you questions….Which had a meaning behind its, but I guess you didn’t comprehend…Muthafucka’s will try to flip everything but a pancake to try to convince somebody they’re right…To be a Phor supporter you’re drawing a lot of attention to this gay subject by trolling up and down the thread trying to convince people he’s not gay…You can stomp yo hoof and shake yo finger and neck, be that goat-throat all damn day long, but you don’t know what that man does behind closed doors and that’s facts….

  • Coco

    As mentioned in this episode he has been battling with depression all of his life, so he wasn’t just feeling depressed only on this particular episode it’s been a constant state. The backlash are ridcrule he faced when that video leaked, along with all the online trolls who bullied him for the video revealed definitely took a toll on his mental health.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Bitch we all judge…such is life. You’re mad af it seems because this man is allegedly pretending to be straight. This is the reason so many black women are suffering from HIV because of down low mess like this. So, keep on talking bullshit. NO woman wants a video of a man’s ass nor do they want to see it from the angle that Phor was sending it from. Phor has been caught with men (DGAF what they call themselves) now he wants to kill himself. Instead of using death as a threat, he should either seek counseling or live his life with the trannies. Nikki was lucky that she didn’t catch anything from his nasty ass. You can keep siding with his nasty ass. Dummy.

  • Justmadeanaccount2

    I ALREADY TOLD YOU THIS SITE DOESN’T ALLOW YOU TO POST LINKS YOU STUPID BITCH. I told you where to read the message exposing him, I gave you the girl and trannys IG pages, and I even told you they’re on the show (episode 3 at the Halloween party) but you still argue and remain in denial. SMH What a stupid hoe you are. It makes no fucking sense talking to you because you’re going to keep arguing no matter what proof I give you. Now it “doesn’t matter” when I give you fucking evidence that he’s gay….Okay bitch. You’re fucking blocked. Hate willfully ignorant whores like you who refuse to face reality.

  • Gee Z Bee

    So his sister just committed suicide and some of yall think this is fake hmmm something wrong with yall mfs!

  • Bright Smile Miss Wilder

    Also the Transgender Woman he sent the video to was planning on making a appearance on the show!!.. That’s why Niki quit the show so abruptly.. and that’s also might have something to do with why he is depressed this episode.. I hope they don’t let her come on cuz that would be to mess to watch

  • Coco

    Nia, look at the time of when that was posted….. check that before responding, we’ve both said what needed to say and that’s that.

  • Bright Smile Miss Wilder

    Lord knows I love for Phor ❤️.. His music is LIT and he does really good tattoos.. but honestly feel like he’s only feeling depressed this episode because he’s being bullied about his sexuality..I think right after the video came out Phor should’ve just been open and honest about who he sent the booty hole video too!!… I mean it’s Like what my granny always says nothing hurts more than the truth!!. And people will probably continue to talk about his sexuality until he keeps it real with himself and just be honest about his sexuality..His preference shouldn’t define his destiny!!. Is all I’m saying but I do hope he gets help

  • realrapcrush

    I feel some type of way like Charmaine walking around with a titty out during that whole depression situation ughhhhh
    And I just wanna say this idk if phor is in the closet or not but me being black in Chicago and having previous relationships with black guys I noticed they all have the same depression trait and they hide it with music and stuff it’s sad and devastating because they always feel like they have to be hard all the time and not talk about these things idk I’m not a man but being a woman we have our times where we have to be superwoman to but as black people wel people in general we have to be more open minded with our own people be there for them be positive all this negative shit we see on social media we ehance it thru our brains sometimes and it’s causing us to fuck up our minds being lost sometimes we have to tune out everything n just take time to find ourselves and be there for one another more that’s all

  • ShelbyMoore

    But I just judged, the same way YOU and everyone else on this post is judging, so WTF are you talking about? You are an outsider as well giving your opinion..so why is your opinion more valid than anyone else’s? At least I have moral. Most of the people in society today lack morals and that’s why the world is so fucked up. Byeee Becky No Morals!

  • Nia Nicole

    Why Coco? I thought we were past this….don’t act ugly.

  • Camden

    Prayers up for you Phor dear.

  • Nicole Shaw

    He was telling the gods honest truth tho lol. So damn educated and reduced to acting a trifling fool on TV

  • Justmadeanaccount2

    Are you slow? Mediatakeout didn’t make it up. THERE IS A SCREENSHOT OF HER REVEALING THE INFORMATION POSTED THERE. Look it up and stop being willfully ignorant. The woman who exposed him is named iamtrinitybankz on instagram and the tranny he was messing with (and sent the video to) is 2nd_2_no1 on instagram. Go find the MTO article and you can see Trinity Bankz telling the whole story. They were on the show but VH1 cut out most of it because of Phor was threatening suicide and shit. She posted this WEEKS before the public knew Phor was suicidal, so it’s obviously true.

  • MéliMélo

    lmaooooo I’ll never forget when her father said that, it was TV gold.

  • Jenny Nduta Gorvieh

    my prayers for phor i too had experience with depression on and off luckily im alive cleansing off negative energy surrounding me. i feel for phor <3

  • Coco

    Well said. There idiots taking the absolute crap all over this thread making speculation and assumptions on a situation they know very little about.

  • PowerFanatic

    The fact that Ryan asked Charmaine to leave but the camera can stay is puzzling.. i never understood that. Nevertheless..

  • Coco

    She’s absolutely gross and has no dignity as a woman and has the morals if a sewer rat.

  • Ang Zone

    Man Phor you got my love and support brother

  • SpiceGirl

    She done got so damn fat it is disgusting…with her always having her body parts hanging out! Ewwwwwww

  • SpiceGirl

    Ok I have not watched as of yet…(will tonight) Going off the comments alone
    I’m glad to hear this scripted show is using it’s platform to talk about depression. It is VERY serious. I hope for the best for Phor…He is very talented. And if they can touch just ONE person from this episode….GOOD FOR THEM!

  • Nicole Shaw

    I cringe every time she speaks. Her father was right. He raised a dummy

  • CeCe Says Ugonlearntaday

    Now you know Junior said nothing of like to her. He was on some friendly ish with her. he doesn’t even like the person she is, let alone be in love with that girl. Lily is just an evil, mean-spirited person.

  • Ms_CHeLLe

    Charmaine is fkn disgusting I swear! Ugh!

  • LaNiece Robinson

    Gurl ain’t no straight man sending no ass pics, point blank n period…Where the hack is that done at? It’s only dick riders that will think anything but…Are you Phor? Did he send you the pic? Are you a gay man that tried to get in his drawers and he rejected you? Then it seems to me that you are only speculating like the rest of us..But you wanna call people names and shit, is he paying you for that? You’re ASSUMING!!! Didn’t someone come out and say he was messing with a transgender? I responded off over your comment, so you do better and go run that bullshit down on someone else..Cause I’mma say what I say..Do what I do…And be who I be…You going up and down this thread talking shit to ppl you don’t know defending someone you don’t know..You may be getting nasty with a depressed person but you’re the good guy, huh…

  • MéliMélo

    Or he could be overwhelmed by the excessive bullying he’s been going through. Social media has definitely brought out the worse in people, they will antagonise someone in a way that they would never in real life because there are no consequences to online bullying. Do you know how many people have committed suicide because of online bullying? It’s quite staggering and if Phor has already battled depression since childhood it can all be too much. Sean Mendes has also talked about this (people consistently calling him gay even though he says he’s not) and the relentlessness has sent him into a depression as well.

  • Martin Luther King Jr

    This is the first time a reality show made me cry no cap

  • Danielle Murray

    Yeah I’m glad as well – this episode definitely got me teary eyed – but I appreciate it 100%. Prayers for Phor and everyone battling depression or any form of mental illness.

  • Xoxopinkey

    Lilly is a hating ass bitch. Y’all seen that smirk on her face after she told ol girl about JR? Tbh if I was me I wouldve accepted her apology and kept it pushing. We really don’t have anything to talk about.

  • Sharron Bradham

    I think personally Phor is dealing with depression because he is scared to tell his truth about his sex preference. I may be wrong but thats how I feel! Hope hes able to get over that hurdle and be who he really is!

  • Made Jade

    Phor will be alright as long as his so called support system is there to support & help him until he is able to stand on his own again.
    Depression is tough and shamed when a black man comes forward. Prayers out.

  • Coco

    Exactly smh

  • Camden

    Ok pause.

    WTF is Van goofy ass crying for? lol! Fool ass! She said, “Let me wipe this tear before I kill your ass!” lmaooo!!!

    Ok let me finish

  • Coco

    We definitely do and it’s so sad

  • Coco

    No.

  • Coco

    It doesnt matter about what you thought he should have done, who are you to place judgmental and play the moral high ground police? You are an outsider looking in, you don’t know the status of the situation.

  • Taretta

    I was really tough to watch to be honest. It was tough to see Van cry as he’s laying next to Phor, it was tough to see Ryan give him the pep talk he needed…it was just one tough situation. Again, because our community doesnt talk about it but to see these young people talk about it and be about it touched my heart. Good job guys

  • Taretta

    All in all I really hate to see Phor going through this. He is a talented young brother and throwing his life away would be a disservice to himself. I am glad depression is being talked about in depth in this episode because our black community shuns depression and getting help.

  • Taretta

    To Dumb Adriana,

    Dearest Dear, you dont let NO woman tell you what your man has done or said and you take it out on him in front of HER and everyone else. You sip all that tea, keep calm and when YOU and YOUR MAN leave THEN you unleash on his ass. NEVER show another woman that she has gotten to you over YOUR man. Then you acted totally insane in front of the whole house.
    TSK TSK TSK!!!! YOU ARE A FOOL!!!

    Please take what I said and APPLY it.

    Sincerely,
    Ya girl T!!

  • Lena Thames

    Lily a hater jyst starting stuff she wasn’t genuine when she apologized you see right after that she saying he was texting her get your drunk ass some business and what history they only messed around a few months til she being a slut and a basket case

  • daniella

    I don’t feel bad for lily, she couldn’t wait to start something. Everybody has “hit her up” sorry. Next

  • daniella

    Jen handled that conversation the way I expected. She was hurt, he wanted to hug her and make it all better. Hell no. It don’t work like that

  • CtheGod

    He is. I expected him to be simply cuz Don is one fine ho.

  • Camden

    I think we all battle with some form of depression, isolation, loneliness at some point in our lives. You will get through brother! I too battle with depression sometimes. Stay prayful, tap into your creative outlets, take yourself out, socialize. Blessings and healing to you dear. :))

  • Nia Nicole

    I’m ready!

  • Nia Nicole

    Awwww babe….I’m sorry for assuming you were. I still pray for the best for you!

  • Ashley Neal

    I agree. I dont have no social media

  • Ashley Neal

    Agreed

  • Nia Nicole

    I did too…apparently vh1 flew the girl and a friend of hers out for the purpose of outing him and he threatened suicide if they did.
    Idk HOW true this is, but it kinda makes sense.

  • Paige Banks

    don’t assume that’s what it is. he just lost his sister like a year ago. and nikki left him.

  • Paige Banks

    therapy really helps if you open yourself up to a new way of looking at things..

  • Nia Nicole

    To say she smells like fish is an insult to fish!

  • Paige Banks

    LMAOOO lets do this..class action lawsuit

  • Nia Nicole

    I AM WITH YOU 100%…..THAT’S IS “1 DIRTY McNASTY, VAMPIRE/TWILIGHT VAGINA HAVING, RAW ONIONS AND PEPPERS UNDER ARM SMELLING, ALWAYS TWERKING HER SOUR DUMPSTER ON A HOT SUMMER’S DAY BUTT CRACK SMELLING ASS ON RANDOM VICTIMS AND OBJECTS” ASS GIRL!!! I HATE HER TEETH, HER DRESS CODE AND HER VOICE!! VH1 SHOULD BE SUED AND SHE SHOULD BE EMBARRASSED!! SHE STINKS!

  • Nicole Shaw

    Thank god Phor is taking a leave of absence from this show. He does not need cameras in his face while he is going thru his storm. Prayers going up for this king.

  • champaignkisses

    You don’t know the cause of his depression. You should feel bad for judging someone in their time of need instead of being empathetic.

  • Shacora L Jones

    Yes I feel so bad for him. We all have our demons. And like u said I couldn’t imagine having the world watch while I fight mine. Smh. But yes you’re right. He needs to take a step back from filming and get healthy

  • Nia Nicole

    Pictures all on the wall and shit….vh1 gonna have to pay for the damages!

  • ninaS

    WE LOVE YOU PHOR!!

  • Nia Nicole

    YES!!! EVERYTHING you said, Shacora!!

  • Nia Nicole

    EXACTLY!!!!! I have trouble dealing with my own shat so I can’t imagine having the world watching! I do think it’s best if he gets off of social media and TV for awhile.

  • Paige Banks

    so are VH1 trying to give us PTSD always giving us every musty detail of charmaines hygeine? i might take legal action at this point.

  • ninaS

    i watched this episode twice. I REp this show now this was so real. Hope Phor feels loved because he truely is…on a lighter now, charmane;s diva cup ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!

  • Ashly Jones

    They got that house looking like they been there for a whole month and not a weekend .ijs lol

  • Shacora L Jones

    That’s true I’m not disagreeing at all. I said I think his sexuality is part of the reason he is going through this. I just don’t think it’s the ONLY reason. You have to look at all the details. His sister committed suicide and his dad is currently battling mental health issues. Him possibly being gay just adds on to his battle !

  • Shacora L Jones

    Oh no hun. I def agree. I think that his sexuality may possibly play into what he’s going through. But I’m not referring to the comments making that connection. Scroll through. I’m talking about the comments calling him a fruity ass Nigga && etc. As if it’s a bad thing. That’s WHY coming out is so difficult because of all the judgement. So I get what you’re saying but those aren’t the comments I’m referring to

  • Ashly Jones

    I seen that too

  • Nit18

    This ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • ShelbyMoore

    So is Jr. and his gf.

  • ShelbyMoore

    He should have thought about what he was going to lose before cheating on that girl with a birl (allegedly). No woman in her right mind wants to be with a man that’s been with another man even if that other man has cut his penis off…he’s still a man.

  • ShelbyMoore

    After seeing the video that Nikki left him over….which woman wants to see up under a man’s ass? The streets say that he sent that video to a Birl (allegedly) and that’s why Nikki bounced.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Well, she did say that Jr. is always lying to her and lies to her about everything, so perhaps that’s the reason she took Lily’s word cause Jr. is a liar.

  • ShelbyMoore

    That’s the truth and after seeing the video that he sent, the truth has to be that he looks boy pussy and not the ladies.

  • Justmadeanaccount2

    He’s gay. A woman exposed the real story two weeks ago. He was hooking up with a manly looking tranny who was actually supposed to be on the show, but Phor begged Vh1 to not show it and threatened suicide. Google Phor mediatakeout transgender for screenshots and pics of the tranny. This site wont let me post the link.

  • Ladyshopper

    YES he is…

  • Justmadeanaccount2

    ..

  • Ci Ci_24

    Wow! When i tell You this episode was just an emtional one ALL together! Whew. Starting with Jen. That shaky voice was A “fed up voice” . I mean You can only take so much. I understand Love .. but sometimes you have to do what’s right! I aint Mad at you girl. But i am Beyond proud of the growth I see with Don. From the first season up until NOW. Major 360. And i commend Him for that. I am thankful that this mental health was brought out.. i swear You JUST never know. I seen the picture with Nuse and It was a bit disturbing. But i pray For every individual who’s suffering from mental health. Peace God!

  • Pisces3384

    It’s good to see growth in Don. I hope this is real and consistent! Ashley still cray as hell for putting up with all that but maybe it will work out for her and her family in the end.

  • April_Moon

    It’s the bonus clip above if I’m not mistaken

  • April_Moon

    I think it’s the bonus clip above

  • ModernGoddess

    Ok…. Thanks for the info, didn’t know that…..Dad is nice looking!

  • Ashley Brown

    Phor is battling his sexuality.

  • CtheGod

    That’s don’s father. Phor’s passed away. They have the same mother

  • Coco

    Fair enough..

  • Nia Nicole

    Coco have a seat please.

  • Nia Nicole

    It’s ok if that’s what YOU feel. I’m only saying what I got from it. Saw the same thing happen with a family member so if I’m wrong, I’m just wrong. I’m not going to debate with you.

  • Nia Nicole

    I hope he does too. But as for you, if you’re employed look into the EAP (employees assistant program) bc counseling is something offered, free of charge. Start there, it helps. You can actually feel it coming and you have the power to not let “it” win.

  • ModernGoddess

    Don & Phor’s father is a handsome man….

  • Elizabeth Jones

    ❤❤

  • Nia Nicole

    I think due to the seriousness of Phor’s situation, it got scrapped. They probably couldn’t show what really was taking place.

  • EBONY

    LILY WAS LIKE IM COOL I DONT WANT NO DRAMA HERES MY PEACE TREATY, THEN SHE HAS AN AHA MOMENT IS LIKE WHEN YALL FIRST STARTED TALKING MONTHS AND MONTHS AGO HE SAID HE LOVED ME VIA TEXT. SHE IS THE DEFINITION OF A SHIT STARTER. LMMMAAAAAOOOOOO

  • Frogalicious

    Lol @ Eveready… I can’t.

  • Ladyshopper

    Yes he is….

  • Coco

    Was this transgender woman in any of the episodes?

  • Coco

    Lol this is all speculations and assumptions that you’ve pretty much created, tbh there
    really isn’t any truth in what you’re are saying. Before the video leaked where was all the rumours about him being “gay” ?

  • Jahsheda Elli

    right! so freaking rude and disrespectful. Like only him can care for Phor wtf

  • Jahsheda Elli

    i was referring to the way he told Charmaine to get out

  • Coco

    Lol yall are doing rhe most you dont lnow enpigh to make such assimptions that can potentially be damaging.

  • Coco

    Lol yall are doing rhe most you dont lnow enpigh to make such assimptions that can potentially be damaging.

  • Coco

    Lol yall are doing rhe most you dont lnow enpigh to make such assimptions that can potentially be damaging.

  • LaNiece Robinson

    And you don’t know him not too….Everybody has their own opinion! You say he’s not gay and a lot of people say that he is…At the end of the day he’s not happy with himself…

  • LaNiece Robinson

    You saying he ain’t gay but calling him a nigga at the same time! lmao…Way to defend a person…lmao

  • Snuup

    So true!!

  • Snuup

    Don better better keep an eye on phor coz he might end up doing the unthinkable… just saying.. wish him the best tho

  • LaNiece Robinson

    Are you a male or female?

  • LaNiece Robinson

    100% That’s how we all say gay….

  • LaNiece Robinson

    lmao…

  • Malefa Motitswe

    Guys!!! Do Eveready and Jen fight at some point in this episode?

  • Su Ja

    wich hetrosexual man would show their ass to a woman. Wich woman gets turned on by looking at a mens ass.
    And a few episodes ago they showed a trans woman that since then has shared information on social media that Phor was fucking with her transexual friend.

  • Su Ja

    yep he knew. You know from 4 years and up when your not like everyone else.

  • Su Ja

    I dont feel bad. I think Phor should just embrace his bisexualness, maybe he will then be less depressed.

  • Su Ja

    Maybe Phor would be less depressed if he came out as bisexual. Aint nothing wrong with that.

  • Su Ja

    I did not see it either…..not cool

  • Nia Nicole

    Seek help now while you’re feeling good.

  • Nia Nicole

    And they probably HAD to show it last week without giving up the situation about his suicide. I believe his friends know the deal about his sexuality and don’t care.

  • Nia Nicole

    You’re right, they DO have it bad but unfortunately, some of them ARE gay and don’t want to be outed or fear living in their truth. It is what it is.

  • Nia Nicole

    I agree with him coming clean. I truly believe that is why Nikki left. I’m glad she hasn’t spoken on it.

  • Nia Nicole

    He could’ve known at a young age.

  • Nia Nicole

    I totally agree. Thing is, they’ll love him regardless.

  • Nia Nicole

    Probably bc being soft spoken would not have helped. He needed Phor to understand he loves him AND he needs him around. You never cussed somebody out with love?

  • Nia Nicole

    I’m glad you’re still here.

  • Nia Nicole

    Not trying to be rude but he probably is. Can you imagine a man that’s looked at as a “man’s man” having those kind of feelings and not being able to be himself? For fear of judging and being joked? Any gay person for that matter…..it has to hurt to not be able to live your true life bc you’ll feel unloved. Quite frankly, I believe the video is what tipped him and that could be why his gf really left. So everyone isn’t trying to be unkind about it. I know I’m not.

  • Savagery

    they had to edit it out because they were actually supposed to show the transgendered woman that Phor was (messing over Nikki wit and) sending that vid to…but because he told production that he would kill himself if they aired that, it was cut out altogether. So Ebonita’s scene somehow got the snip too…

  • Nia Nicole

    I feel you and I believe that it was more to it than what he said so probably on top of that and everything else, he felt more broken than before. I really pray he feels better sooner than later.

  • Nia Nicole

    Well said brother!

  • Nia Nicole

    You’re right….the break up, the video and the music situation. I can’t imagine going through life with the entire world watching! I don’t even like Facetime….I prefer privacy more often than not.

  • Nia Nicole

    Well said. There was a time when celebrities had more privacy but social media has made it easy to look into everyone’s lives in some form or fashion. When it’s all said and done, they hurt and have problems just like the Average Joe but now they can’t pick their noses without cameras. I’m definitely guilty of judging and chiming in from time to time but there comes a time when the shit talking and snapping has to stop. He also should probably stay off of TV and social media for awhile. They’re not helpful tools.

  • Nia Nicole

    Somebody DOES love you and I applaud your efforts to make yourself feel better. You will have to speak to someone sooner than later. Perhaps try seeking help while you’re actually in a good place so when you’re feeling depressed you have more tools to assist with your healing. I’m speaking from experience. God bless you.

  • Lulu Yu

    You’re so right, kindness is free!

  • Vernika Joy

    what happened to the fight with evenita or did i miss it skipping through the episode

  • Coco

    I agree, he’s a trooper for trying to hold everything together knowing it’s not easy, I.hope he can also take time out for himself aswell, his presence is very much needed.

  • Russell Smith

    Really hope many people watched this episode especially the ones online who were bashing Phor over his scandal. Really hope they feel like shit cause in the end of the day hes a human too and you dont know what people are dealing with. Just cause hes on TV doesnt mean he cant feel as hurt as anyone else when he gets that degree of hate. Phor kept a strong front but losing his girl, his music opportunity and getting bashed publicly must have really affected him on the low till it boiled over now. This was a really emotional ep and hopefully phors doing better now.

    Also Besides Phor, Ryan and the crew, i really feel bad for Don as well. Don must feel like so much weight is on his shoulders trying to keep his family together. He really has too much tragedy with losing his sister, grandmother and uncle within the past two years and now his dad and brother are at risk. Its really sad to see how much he has to deal with.

  • Coco

    The breakup with Nikki probably triggered his depression, I’m sure he found comfort and validation being with her, hopefully she sees this episode and reaches out to him.

  • Coco

    He wasn’t rude and Charmaine didn’t take it that way, he was being blunt.

  • Coco

    I honestly couldn’t care less about the drama going on with toxic Lilly and unstable Junior, they’re both as toxic as each other and should both remain single until they’re mentally strong enough to handle a relationship.

  • Coco

    I love the heart to heart Ryan showed Phor, that’s genuine love and support right there.

  • Coco

    This was definitely an emotionally an empathetic episode, I genuinely feel for Phor and everything he is currently battling with, he seems like a genuinely nice guy who wants the best for himself and those around him. I hope he truly gets the help he deserves and understands the amount of love and support he is surrounded with e an if he may not feel it, it’s definitely there. I’m glad he took an absence from the show, sometimes having cameras in your face, can fuel the depression because of backlash being on TV can bring.

  • KurtwitdaWork

    It’s amazing how easy it is to mask the pain most people have stored inside themselves, not being able to express their sorrow out of either not knowing how, or out of fear of being judged. Even me, on this damn internet commenting about the shit I view, and how I feel about it for jokes and kicking the shit, when in reality there are folks really out here going through inner turmoil and most would never know it for sure. The world seems so conditioned these days to join in on the critique and malicious banter of others downfalls, when we all got shit up wit us. Seeing Bro feel that he was so empty inside that he thought he’d be better off eliminating himself from the world was rough to watch. Especially, when a season or so ago, the nigga had a new look, a bad bitch seemingly down for him, and getting his music popped off more in the right direction. To others, he may have appeared to be “living that life” but damn bro is broken. I need to be more mindful of how I move, even though ion be on no real fuck shit, I could be kinder to people, that shit is free, and takes little away from my spirit, and probably would even feed it richly. Salute to Ryan for that heart to heart with his brother Phor.

  • REALLY NIGGA!?

    well. i hope he aint going through that.. that and anxiety aint no joke! that shit will beatyou to your knees.. i beat both.. if any of you reading this are going through depression or anxiety.. first off leave the booze alone!! next read CLAIRE WEEKS book or listen to her on youtube.. follow her method religiously !!! and you will heal yourself. its all about retraining your brain and nerves… ACCEPT ALL YOUR FEELINGS AND DONT FOLLOW YOUR THOUGHTS ..this is key

  • KristalisaDiamond

    This episode got me crying real tears right now. I know this show is full of ratchet, over the top mess but I can really appreciate how they are using this platform to discuss mental illness and depression on a deeper level. I can definitely relate to Phor, as I know so many others can & I really hope he gets the help he needs!!

  • Russell Smith

    Lily is so fucking annoying and petty man. Junior and his girl are better off just ignoring her when they do stuff cause she will always take it do a hostile place.

    Also its hilarious how she keeps acting like Junior broke her heart and that hes the one who caused the problems, when we CLEARLY saw that she cheated on him with her ex and he just dumped her for that. Most people would dump a person for that and if she cared about him so much she wouldnt have done it. It was her fault yet shes playing victim…..come on.

    Lastly, Im pretty sure Lily was stretched the truth on purpose to mess things up and she even tried to hide smile while junior was upset. Adriana was a fool to immediately believe a snake like lily who clearly admitted she was jealous and still likes her dude. Who would trust that.

  • Justmadeanaccount2

    I am a man. lol

  • Ancient Wisdom

    I feel horrible having criticized Phor’s naked video, now that I see how all this negative publicity has affected him. I pray he gets the help and peace he needs. I apologize.

  • Lost Sheep

    How in the FUCK did u see gay!? Some of u silly heffas are quick to call Black Men gay, STOP THT BULLSHIT! They have it bad enough just existing in this White World!

  • Coco

    I realised Ryan became more attractive physically once he lost weight, started eating better and hitting the gym, it’s actually done him justice.

  • Coco

    You don’t know him to label him as “gay” just because of one situation that was exposed, which he completely owned up to.

  • Coco

    100% agree!!

  • Sherree Lee

    Yeah I noticed that too

  • Lost Sheep

    I CANT FUCKIN STAND LILY! I bet Jr wanna FK her drunk ass up but cant!

  • Lost Sheep

    It would of taken EVERYTHING in me n my love for Phor, to keep from cussin his FINE ass out, N he did it on Camera too, HELL NAH! Ryan would of been a VERY well cussed out individual, AFTER Phor was on tht Plane to ATL, AND ON CAMERA, FK THT!

  • Fukyo2centzzz

    Thank you so much. And it was extremely hard to get through alone. And yes I make sure I speak out everytime i come across someone in this position. I was so young and I had no one to turn to. That’s y I make it my business to be there for the ones that’s going through it now. Thank you again my fellow queen.

  • Fukyo2centzzz

    Thank you so much. And it was extremely hard to get through alone. And yes I make sure I speak out everytime i come across someone in this position. I was so young and I had no one to turn to. That’s y I make it my business to be there for the ones that’s going through it now. Thank you again my fellow queen.

  • Fukyo2centzzz

    Thank you so much. And it was extremely hard to get through alone. And yes I make sure I speak out everytime i come across someone in this position. I was so young and I had no one to turn to. That’s y I make it my business to be there for the ones that’s going through it now. Thank you again my fellow queen.

  • Shacora L Jones

    Omg i forgot about that lol. Damn they played tf outta us! Didn’t even show it smh

  • Shacora L Jones

    That may be partially true. But Don also said he has been battling and diagnosed with depression since he was a child.

  • Shacora L Jones

    He is very aggressive. Charmaine can be annoying as fuck sometimes… But that whole “I said GET OUT” shit that Ryan pulled was disrespectful af. I get he is the “boss” but that was too much and uncalled for in the moment. She clearly was concerned about her friend just like him. N she is not his child. He could have easily said “yo charmaine give me a moment to talk to my brother alone”. She better than me cus we would had some words.

  • Shacora L Jones

    && junior too ! Smh

  • Xoxopinkey

    Yes I be out here in LAcursing folks out using that word. Like you really think that shit cool and it’s not’

  • Fukyo2centzzz

    This episode put me so much in my feelings because the situation with Phor I know all too well. I experienced it myself and I was only 14 when I went thru my depression stage & tried to take my own life. So anytime I see something like this it gets to me because I know what they’re going thru. So happy & grateful God blessed me to still be here. And it’s so good that he has such a strong support system. I had no one at all that I could turn to I felt so alone and tried to do everyone else a favor with suicide. Thank God I made it. I’m praying for you Phor! You will overcome this this dark path…

  • KurtwitdaWork

    I feel for the homie Phor, but can’t nobody get no sleep wit Van fat ass sprawled across the bed talkin bout Ima get the foot of the bed.. nigga, get the floor or get in a bed of ur own and holla at me in the morn.. then producers talkin bout how he escape? He’s not a fugitive.. bra simply walked outside..

  • Angela Paul

    Problem is when you still have self awareness and cohesive thought its hard to find help, it’s almost like you have to break completely and be committed to get a complete wellness plan. This episode and your comment has helped me beyond so I’m sorry you feel it was too much. It was clearly overwhelming and intrusive for him but i also feel there was genuine love and respect in the way it was done – I’m hoping he will feel like the superhereo he is and not see anything but gratitude from the public.

  • Deano Fergi

    U can see how sleepy can was, but u can see him wake up and his facial expression once Charmaine told him about phor because he actually was concerned

  • Josie da Goddess

    Jr’s gf is an imbecile..why tf would u be concern about your bf ex gf checking to see why she is feeling down….smh??!! And then secondly stupid ASF to believe what she is saying when she literally told u she still cares for him and feels some type of way when she sees them together..she took the damn bait wit her ol stupid ass…smh

  • LaKeysha Lane

    A lot of latinas use it too

  • Afrik

    Lily is too comfortable with that nigga word

  • Melly f. Baby

    omg phor’s situation made me boo hoo so hard 🙁

  • Jahsheda Elli

    wtf is ryan so aggressive and rude omg.

  • AnViBoQuam

    This Phor episode touched me.

    Lily is an ass and Adriana is gullible.

  • NewbieNubian

    Oh yea… Don’s dad is really good looking.

  • NewbieNubian

    That shit with Phor hit me hard. I’m so happy he didn’t get his wish. So so happy. I hope to God he finds peace.

  • Justmadeanaccount2

    Phor would be less depressed if he just came out of the closet….No one cares if you’re gay, damn dude…. And why was Ryan so rude to Charmaine??? “Get out”? Dramatic bastard. lmao

  • Cass32

    Lily was back at being Lily again and the dumb ass chick played right into it.

  • Cass32

    What happened to the confrontation between Jenn and “Ebonita”?

  • Shacora L Jones

    I never write long comments but i feel like this IMPORTANT for the viewers to know and understand
    Phor’s situation really really hit home for me. He needs professional help. A million people in the world can tell you they love you && mean it but when you’re battling mental illness n depression that’s not enough. It doesn’t fix the real issues. Sometimes depression can be brought on by traumatic events or it can be hereditary. But what a lot of ppl don’t know is depression can be caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain n that’s something no amount of words can fix. I also strongly strongly feel like all those cameras in his face and being surrounded by 20 ppl in this instance was more damaging than helpful. I get it’s important to bring awareness n for this to be shown. But I really feel at some point they should’ve cut those damn cameras off n gave him some space or one on one time with someone. This episode was a lot for me n it hit home so hard man.

  • Queens Den

    Fuck the drama with Lily and Jr.
    Mental health is serious. Some people have more to say about drama than Phor. So many are in pain, but cry silently. Talking to a professional is important to regaining your health. My heart goes out to Phor. His vibe been off for a while, and now we know why.

  • Keishla Garcia

    Lily was being hella messy bringing that old ass shit up and jr’s girl honestly just wanted to show her she had him wrapped around her finger regardless lol she said it in the interview she won lily lost she feels why she’s mad , now phor I hope he gets the help he seeks and gets better . I myself deal w chronic anxiety and depression. It’s not fun. I watch these shows to keep my mind off my own bullshit, hope he really shakes this off. Ryan a real ass friend period .

  • Pebbles

    Jr girlfriend is dumb! I would’ve said! Oh! Ok thanks for sharing twerked on him some more, slobbered him down with kisses in front of her.

    But when we got home baaaaaby I would’ve cussed him out & told him don’t ever allow a beeeeee_attttttch tell me something that you should’ve told me.

    Lillie wasn’t doing it out of being concerned it was out of being messy

    Awwwwww! Phoooooor!

  • Girly Girl

    Ayyyeeee

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  • Sharron Dzenyo

    2nd